aik lujhan

[crystal_thinking]

Asalam-O-Alikum

aik sawal jo hamesha sy meray demag mein ghoomta rahta hy shaid bhot sy kamo sy rukny ka bais b banta ra ... kuch din sy demag bilkul stuck hy kuch samjh mein nai aa ra... bas aik yhe sawal hy jo demag mein hy.. socha re k ap logo sy share karon or apki ray lon... sawal yeh hy k..

kia ham log apni zindagi mein jo kam b karty hn apni zindagi ki ksi b stage py kia yeh bat sach hy k uska impact ham sy related logon py +ve or -vly parta hy??? khud hamki zindagi mein tu parta hy per kbi jab ham koi kam intentionally krty hn tu uska impact kaisa hota hy???

kia yeh bhot zaruri hy k ham un kamo ki saza paen jo hamny kiya b nai???

[saraah]

Re: aik lujhan

waalikum asslam

sawaal kuch clear nae phir b jo smjh me aaya hai uss k mutabiq ....zahir hai agar hum logon k sath munslik hain tou asar parray ga logon pe aur yaqeeenan hum munslik hotay hain

un kamo ki saza jo hum ne nae kiye ....well kabhi suna hoga tum ne maa baap k kiye ki saza aulaad bhugat rahi hai...suna kabhi??? if yess tou yeh b poosible hota hai ...nae b suna tou ...haan esa possible hai zaroori ya gair zaroori wala masla nae.

[crystal_thinking]

Re: aik lujhan

hmmm i know sawal clear nai hy but jawab clear nila hy :) ...

its mean yeh sab baten insan ko influence krti hn...

but saraah sometime infect most of the time aisa hota na k hmk ird gird basny wly log hamko in halat o waqiyat ki saza zarur dyty hein shaid yeh hmr mushry ki khud garzi hy...

aik sawal or...

agar hamko pata chal jae k falan shaks galt activity mein involve hy tu hamko kia karna chahy its obvious mein apny sy choty person ki bat kar re nai.. jab respected relations mein aisa ho tu kia step lyna chahiya??

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: aik lujhan

Asalam-O-Alikum

aik sawal jo hamesha sy meray demag mein ghoomta rahta hy shaid bhot sy kamo sy rukny ka bais b banta ra ... kuch din sy demag bilkul stuck hy kuch samjh mein nai aa ra... bas aik yhe sawal hy jo demag mein hy.. socha re k ap logo sy share karon or apki ray lon... sawal yeh hy k..

kia ham log apni zindagi mein jo kam b karty hn apni zindagi ki ksi b stage py kia yeh bat sach hy k uska impact ham sy related logon py +ve or -vly parta hy??? khud hamki zindagi mein tu parta hy per kbi jab ham koi kam intentionally krty hn tu uska impact kaisa hota hy???

kia yeh bhot zaruri hy k ham un kamo ki saza paen jo hamny kiya b nai???

Wa Alaikum Aslam!

Question bohat clear nahi he aur thoora sa imbalance bhi lag raha he. bulke aik general sa question lagta he jis ka jawaab yehi ho sakta he ke Hamaaray aamaal se ham se related loog mutasir huay bina nahi reh saktay.

Tumharay question ko discuss kerne ke liye tumhein isay mazeed open ker ke paish karna ho ga :p

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: aik lujhan

hmmm i know sawal clear nai hy but jawab clear nila hy :) ...

its mean yeh sab baten insan ko influence krti hn...

but saraah sometime infect most of the time aisa hota na k hmk ird gird basny wly log hamko in halat o waqiyat ki saza zarur dyty hein shaid yeh hmr mushry ki khud garzi hy...

aik sawal or...

agar hamko pata chal jae k falan shaks galt activity mein involve hy tu hamko kia karna chahy its obvious mein apny sy choty person ki bat kar re nai.. jab respected relations mein aisa ho tu kia step lyna chahiya??

May I poke my nose into your question :p

Ghalat activity ko rookne ke liye bhi hidayat ki gai he k ghalat kaam ko apne haathon se rooko, ya apni zuban se rooko ya usay dil mein he bura jaano. Koi aap ka senior ya elder jisay aap notice kerte hein ke wo ghalat kaam ker raha he aap us se discuss karein, usay realize kerwanay ki kooshish karein. Ager aap ke ander confidence ka element puri mikdaar mein moojood he aur aap ke concepts clear hein ke aap jis baat ko burai samaj rahay hein wo waqee burai he hay then why to hesitate?

[crystal_thinking]

Re: aik lujhan

bat hesitation ki nai bat relations py cross affect ki hy... may be bat karny sy sab kuch khatam ho jany ka andesha ho tu pher kia karna chahiya???

[ummid]

Re: aik lujhan

wasalam...!!

why you use SMS language??? :$....

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: aik lujhan

bat hesitation ki nai bat relations py cross affect ki hy... may be bat karny sy sab kuch khatam ho jany ka andesha ho tu pher kia karna chahiya???

There are exceptions and variations. Intensity and sensitivity of the situations could be different from case to case. I may not be justifying enough to provide you a certain solution until and unless a particular case/situation with clear description is put forth to me. To answer you in general I would ask you to reevaluate first your personal estimation twice and thrice and if you conclude you are right in your opinion, then move ahead with a proper confidence. Your confidence is the key. Whatever the intensity of the situation you can possibly change the results as per your desire. For true relationships there is never a break up but could be a possible halt for a certain time frame. Time mends everything and so are your efforts. So be confident in your each and every move.

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: aik lujhan

Asalam-O-Alikum

aik sawal jo hamesha sy meray demag mein ghoomta rahta hy shaid bhot sy kamo sy rukny ka bais b banta ra ... kuch din sy demag bilkul stuck hy kuch samjh mein nai aa ra... bas aik yhe sawal hy jo demag mein hy.. socha re k ap logo sy share karon or apki ray lon... sawal yeh hy k..

kia ham log apni zindagi mein jo kam b karty hn apni zindagi ki ksi b stage py kia yeh bat sach hy k uska impact ham sy related logon py +ve or -vly parta hy??? khud hamki zindagi mein tu parta hy per kbi jab ham koi kam intentionally krty hn tu uska impact kaisa hota hy???

kia yeh bhot zaruri hy k ham un kamo ki saza paen jo hamny kiya b nai???

ur complicated question shows keh u wakaii Uljhan main hoooo.......

zindagii jabrr e musalsal kii tarah kattii haiiiiii
kiss juramm kii pai hai sazzaa yaadd nahiiiiiiiii

iss dunia main bohat kuch hamarii marzii kayy khilaff hootaa haii...aorr
isiii kaa naamm zindagii haiiii

[crystal_thinking]

Re: aik lujhan

There are exceptions and variations. Intensity and sensitivity of the situations could be different from case to case. I may not be justifying enough to provide you a certain solution until and unless a particular case/situation with clear description is put forth to me. To answer you in general I would ask you to reevaluate first your personal estimation twice and thrice and if you conclude you are right in your opinion, then move ahead with a proper confidence. Your confidence is the key. Whatever the intensity of the situation you can possibly change the results as per your desire. For true relationships there is never a break up but could be a possible halt for a certain time frame. Time mends everything and so are your efforts. So be confident in your each and every move.

kia kabi khamosshi behtar hoti hy??? wo kehty hein na k kabi kabi koi aisi personality b hoti hy jis k wajood jab kabi mati ki terha dhe jae tu ankeon mein sirf uski mati he reh jati or pher dono taraf ghum or sharmandagi dera dal lyti hy... kia pher b tum kaho g k mjko bolna chahiya???

[crystal_thinking]

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ur complicated question shows keh u wakaii Uljhan main hoooo.......

zindagii jabrr e musalsal kii tarah kattii haiiiiii
kiss juramm kii pai hai sazzaa yaadd nahiiiiiiiii

iss dunia main bohat kuch hamarii marzii kayy khilaff hootaa haii...aorr
isiii kaa naamm zindagii haiiii

koi aisi uljhan b nai jaisi uljhan samjhon or ghumzada ho jaon :p

[sarfraz_qamar]

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koi aisi uljhan b nai jaisi uljhan samjhon or ghumzada ho jaon :p

uljhan ,,,uljhan hii hotiii haii,,naa aisii hotii hai aorr naa waisssiiii

[AbgeenA]

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zaruri nahi k ham un kamon ki saza paen jo ham ne nahi keay lekin saza mil jaey to koi kia kar sakta he.or yakinan hmare keay har amal k asar +ve ya -vly hota he jese doosre k kamon ka ham par hota he.baki sawal zeada clear hota to jawab dene me asaani hoti

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: aik lujhan

kia kabi khamosshi behtar hoti hy??? wo kehty hein na k kabi kabi koi aisi personality b hoti hy jis k wajood jab kabi mati ki terha dhe jae tu ankeon mein sirf uski mati he reh jati or pher dono taraf ghum or sharmandagi dera dal lyti hy... kia pher b tum kaho g k mjko bolna chahiya???

Your explanation in itself is an "uljan". To be able to ask a question clearly is two-thirds of the way to getting it answered ;) I can only come up with an appropriate answer if you explain the situation clearly rather than narrating it metaphorically. Hope you get my point

[crystal_thinking]

Re: aik lujhan

agar sawal clear hota tu uljhan he q hoti... chalo choro