ghalat koon ????

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Assalamalikum
main kal TV pay aik prog dekh rahi he us main miyan biwi ka masla tha kay miyaan kisi or larki main involve tha biwi ko yeh baat pasand nahi the ..is pay un ka jhugra chalta raha..miyaan ka kehna tha kay wo dosri larki bus us kay sath office main kaam karti hai ..or dosri larki jo the us ka bhi yehi kehna tha kay wo office main hi kaam karti hai sath ..bus dosti hai or kuch nahi ...to aisi dosteyan theek hain ? biweoo ko shuk nahi karna chaye? samjhoota kis ko karna chaye? wo office wali larki ko kia karna chaye ?

yeh story common hai ..kai gharoo main aisi surat_e_haal peda ho jati hai ...

to sawal yeh kay in main kon aap ko lagta hai ghalat hai or kahan ghalat hai ? or koon sahi hai ? or karna chaye in logoo ko ?

aap in teenoo characters ko samnay rakh kay apnay jawaab daian ...
1)miyan
2)biwi
3)tesri larki

kon ghalat koon sahi /

[saraah]

Re: ghalat koon ????

واعلیکم السلام

تینوں ہی کم یا زیادہ غلط ہیں

بیوی-عورت شراکت نہیں برداشت کر سکتی اس لیے ضرورت سے زیادہ شک بھی کرسکتی ہے جذباتیت کا مظاہرہ زرا کم کرے تو شائد بات نا بگڑے مگر عام طور پہ یہ مشکل ہوتا ہے

شوہر- مرد حضرات عام طور پہ جلدی لٹو ہوجاتے ہیں اس لیے اگر بات شروع میں نا بھی سنگین بتدریج ہوتی جاتی ہے

تیسری لڑکی-یہ محترمہ بھی کافی سے زیادہ غلط ہوتی ہیں ۔اگر نام نہاد دوستی دعوی ہے تو کم از کم ہمارے مزہب میں اسکی کوئی گنجائش نہیں لیکن

۔۔۔۔۔۔ہم کیا باقی سارے کام وہ کرتے ہیں جو مزہب کہتا ہے؟؟؟

کرنا کیا چاہیئے ۔۔۔صرف اور صرف اپنی حدود کا پاس رکھنا چاہیئے انفرادی طور پر۔۔۔۔پر کتھوں۔۔۔۔۔

ہونہہ

[thefire1]

Re: ghalat koon ????

Walaikum Assalaam

Bohat hi acha sawaal aap nay paish kia hay, shukriya wasool kijyey.

Aisa aksar hota hay kay mardoon ka interaction office main moujood secretary yaa aur female staff say hota rehta hay magar agar mard kay dil main waqayi koi KHOOUT nahin hay tou woh iss office kay mamlaat ko srif office main rakhay ga!

Inn tamam ka zimaydaar main MARD ko qarar doonga.... kiyon agar waqayi mard zimaydaar hay tou woh apni PROFESSIONAL aur PERSONAL life ko humesha BALANCED rakhay ga..... jitna ziyada aap PROFESSIONAL life ko PERSONAL banayain gain utna hi nuqsaan app apni family ko aur hosakta hay uss laRki ko poohanchayay jo srif apni job bachaanay ki khaatir apnay boss ko yaa saath senior colleague ko entertain kar rahi hay!

MARD ka straighforward rehna dono MAHOOL main bohat zaroori hay, taakay woh apna, apnay office ka aur apnay ghar ka sukoon barqarar rakh sakay agar MARD shuroo say hi ghar main BIWI ko usska darja day aur uss kay HUQOOQ ada karay aur office main apni female staff ko IZZAT ki nazar say dekhay tou shayed baat itni aagay naa baRhay....

Yeh meri zaati rayay hay jo main aksar apnay office main bhi share karta hoon jiss ka ehtraam sab kartay hain!!!

Nabi-e-Karim SAW nay farmaya hay kay Agar tum chahtay hoo kay log tumhari izzat karain tou auroon ko izzat doo...

Iss topic main mazeed behas ki gunjaish hay kiyonki yeh baat hum MARDOON ko aksar hazam nahin hoti kay maashray main aksar burayi kay zimaydaar hum MARD hi hain aur hum MARD hi inn buraayoon ko dooour kar saktay hain....!!!

May ALLAH SWT light and guide our ways AMEEN.

Fi Amaan ALLAH

[AbgeenA]

Re: ghalat koon ????

walekumsalam
mard zimadar he kiun k ager wo us larki se khud hi fasle par rahe to us ki wife us par shak na kare

[thefire1]

Re: ghalat koon ????

well said, AbgeenA, aap nay chand lafzoon main woh kuch keh dia jinn kay liye mujhay 5 minute lagay type karnay main :)

walekumsalam
mard zimadar he kiun k ager wo us larki se khud hi fasle par rahe to us ki wife us par shak na kare

[AbgeenA]

Re: ghalat koon ????

well said, AbgeenA, aap nay chand lafzoon main woh kuch keh dia jinn kay liye mujhay 5 minute lagay type karnay main :)

thanx:shyy:

[aabi2cool]

Re: ghalat koon ????

Assalamalikum
aap in teenoo characters ko samnay rakh kay apnay jawaab daian ...
1)miyan
2)biwi
3)tesri larki

kon ghalat koon sahi /

w salaam
bila shuba biwi aur wo ttesri larki dono ghalat hain is main koi shak aur shuba ki baat hi naheen hi k aurat hi khud apni bhi aur dosri aurton ki bhi sab se bari dushman hi mard to bechara bus.............:garmi:

[AbgeenA]

Re: ghalat koon ????

w salaam
bila shuba biwi aur wo ttesri larki dono ghalat hain is main koi shak aur shuba ki baat hi naheen hi k aurat hi khud apni bhi aur dosri aurton ki bhi sab se bari dushman hi mard to bechara bus.............:garmi:

dono ko dhoka de raha he..sara kasoor mard ka he
huh bechara mard

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: ghalat koon ????

Assalamalikum
main kal TV pay aik prog dekh rahi he us main miyan biwi ka masla tha kay miyaan kisi or larki main involve tha biwi ko yeh baat pasand nahi the ..is pay un ka jhugra chalta raha..miyaan ka kehna tha kay wo dosri larki bus us kay sath office main kaam karti hai ..or dosri larki jo the us ka bhi yehi kehna tha kay wo office main hi kaam karti hai sath ..bus dosti hai or kuch nahi ...to aisi dosteyan theek hain ? biweoo ko shuk nahi karna chaye? samjhoota kis ko karna chaye? wo office wali larki ko kia karna chaye ?

yeh story common hai ..kai gharoo main aisi surat_e_haal peda ho jati hai ...

to sawal yeh kay in main kon aap ko lagta hai ghalat hai or kahan ghalat hai ? or koon sahi hai ? or karna chaye in logoo ko ?

aap in teenoo characters ko samnay rakh kay apnay jawaab daian ...
1)miyan
2)biwi
3)tesri larki

kon ghalat koon sahi /

W sallam........

yahan kisii aik kaa kasoorr nahii haii..Kasoor uss situation kaa haii jiss kii wajaa sa Biwi ko shakk karnnay kamookaa millaa...Mian b zimaa dar hai aoor wo larkii bb jin ki Naam Nihadd Dosstii kii waja say Biwi ko shakk karrnnay kaa mookaa millaaa.................

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: ghalat koon ????

dono ko dhoka de raha he..sara kasoor mard ka he
huh bechara mard

hhahaaaa...Larkiounn koo yahann saraa kasoor mardd kaa hii dikhaii dayy gaa....

uss larkii kayy barray main kia khiall hain joo uss mard say Dostii ki Dawway darr haii,,,,

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: ghalat koon ????

walekumsalam
mard zimadar he kiun k ager wo us larki se khud hi fasle par rahe to us ki wife us par shak na kare

yehh Fasllaa rakhnnay walla naik kaamm woo larkii kioun nahii rakhtii aakhirrr

[Mr.Khan]

Re: ghalat koon ????

Walaikum Assalaam

Is me qasoor teeno me se kisi ka nahi hia, qasoor sirf Aanchal ka hia kyun ke unho ne ye thread laga kar aisi situation create ki hai.....

well apart of joke....... Meri nazar me qasoor waar mard hai, kyun ke mard or aurat me business relation ko friendship nahi kaha ja sakta. They are just colleague not are friends. Aur ki shak karne ki waja mard ne nahi provide ki hogi.

[AbgeenA]

Re: ghalat koon ????

hhahaaaa...Larkiounn koo yahann saraa kasoor mardd kaa hii dikhaii dayy gaa....

uss larkii kayy barray main kia khiall hain joo uss mard say Dostii ki Dawway darr haii,,,,

2 adad aqalmand mardon ne ye baat tasleem kar li he k kasoor mard ka he..is leay is k baad mazeed kuch kehne ki zarurat nahi

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: ghalat koon ????

2 adad aqalmand mardon ne ye baat tasleem kar li he k kasoor mard ka he..is leay is k baad mazeed kuch kehne ki zarurat nahi

2 aqall manad mardoo kay Taslleem karnnay sayy aoor kuch hoo naa hoo unn
kaa Mardd honna mashkook zaroor hoo jata haii....

yeh mera nai Shabratii ka point of view hai..

aor main apnay ussii point of view par qaimm hooo

[AbgeenA]

Re: ghalat koon ????

2 aqall manad mardoo kay Taslleem karnnay sayy aoor kuch hoo naa hoo unn
kaa Mardd honna mashkook zaroor hoo jata haii....

yeh mera nai Shabratii ka point of view hai..

aor main apnay ussii point of view par qaimm hooo

apka to apna point of view bhi nahi he ap to baat hi na karen na
ap ja kar shabrati k sath chaey pein