Mard Orat Braber??

[AbgeenA]

Aslamoalikum
purana topic he k mard or orat braber hen ya nahi...islam mard ko aik rutba us ki zimadariyon ki waja se zeada deta he....ap baten is bare me?kia orat mard ki brabri kar sakti he?kia orat kuch moamlaat me kamzor nahi he?ager orat khud ko braber samjhti he to us par phir earn karne ki zimadari lazim kiun nahi ya wo lazim kiun nahi uthati?(halaat k tehet nahi lazim)jese mere father ka farz tha k wo kamate pr ghar chalate...meri mother par esi koi zimadari nahi thi...mujh par bhi nahi he...har mard par hoti he orat par nahi hoti...jab wo ye zimadari lazim apne sar nahi leti to braberi kiun mangti he?

[sarfraz_qamar]

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w sallammm

Oorratt Fitriii Toorr parr kamzoorr Zarroorr hainn But Islamm oorratt koo Marrdd kayy brabbarr
haqookk daitaa haii but Jiss tarahh kayy Hakkookk aajj kall ki khawateenn demandd karr rahiii hainnn yehh ghallatttt tareekaa haiii

[T&T]

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A.O.A
Itne Azade Amm ourat Nahin mang Rage Jitne Azade ka Shor Media Macha Raha Hay Or Woh Kion Na Machay.Shawing Creem or Razer Blad Taq to Ourat K Bagir Bach Nahin Patyyy? :(.

[BhaTaktii RooH]

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و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله

huqooq'o'farayiz main barabrii alag hai or ye jo aj kul ki barabariyaan paaney k naarey lagtey hain ye alug hain...

ye so called azadi or huqooq dilaney waley jo naarey aj kul lagtey hain in ka maqsad faqt hamarey mazhabii or ma'ashratii aqdaar ko khatam karna hai....orat ko ghar ki chaar'deewari se bahir la kar mardoon main rehney ki jo dawat di jati hai....ye sirf or sirf fahashi aam karney ki dajjali chaalein hain....or ye chaalein kamyaab bhi horahi hain...or agey bhi hoti rahein gii...becuz in ko jis khoobsoorat andaaz se saja saja kar oratoon k saamney rakha jata hai...or oratein tu ma'roof hain k naqis'ul'aqal makhlooq hain so forun in naaroon ko totoon ki tarah dohraney lagti hain....n nateejatun...So Called azaadi paa leti hain....

but ye sub or kuch nai sirf or sirf qayamat k aney ki tayyari hai....so logo lagey rahoo....

[*Hijab*]

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Walekam-Aslam WRWB
aap ne khud bata diya ke Islam mein mard ko aik darja ziada mila hai so mard aurat barabar nahi ho saktay.
Sarfaraz qamar aur Btahkati Rooh ne excellent answers diye hein
same jo mei kehna chahti thi
:jazak:

[AbgeenA]

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sab ka shukria:rose

[ummid]

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jahan tak me ne parha hai her mard ko aurat per fazeelat nahi... sirf usi mard ko hai jo us aurat ka kafeel ho....

or rahi baat dono ki barbari ki tu yeh sahi hai... dono barabar hai.... khud ghor karo ek gaari mein do pahiye hain ek chota pahiya ek bara pahiyaa gaari ka tawazn kahan rahega???

jahan hoqooq ki baat ho, sawab ki azaab ki rehmaton ki Allah ne sub ko barbar rakha hai... or rahi baat jo you ne kaha earn lazman kyun nahi karti tu ager woh us ke equaly hi responsibilities utha rahi hai tu woh ghar ke bahar jaa ker earn kyun kare???

yeh baat bilkul aisi hai jaise kisi jagah likha hota hai "graduates or equivalent to it" yaani ek tu complete degree hai or jo equivalent wala case hai us mein teen se char diploma bhi hosakte hain : ).... are you getting my point??? :$

tu isi tarah zaroori nahi ke ek mard job kar raha hai tu aurat bhi equality ke liye lazman hi job kare ya earn kar ke laaye, woh us ke eqvivalent kai kaam kar rahi hai kaafi hai : )

things are actualy very simple... : )...

I hope you ko sumjh aagaya hoga :P

[AbgeenA]

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jahan tak me ne parha hai her mard ko aurat per fazeelat nahi... sirf usi mard ko hai jo us aurat ka kafeel ho....

or rahi baat dono ki barbari ki tu yeh sahi hai... dono barabar hai.... khud ghor karo ek gaari mein do pahiye hain ek chota pahiya ek bara pahiyaa gaari ka tawazn kahan rahega???

jahan hoqooq ki baat ho, sawab ki azaab ki rehmaton ki Allah ne sub ko barbar rakha hai... or rahi baat jo you ne kaha earn lazman kyun nahi karti tu ager woh us ke equaly hi responsibilities utha rahi hai tu woh ghar ke bahar jaa ker earn kyun kare???

yeh baat bilkul aisi hai jaise kisi jagah likha hota hai "graduates or equivalent to it" yaani ek tu complete degree hai or jo equivalent wala case hai us mein teen se char diploma bhi hosakte hain : ).... are you getting my point??? :$

tu isi tarah zaroori nahi ke ek mard job kar raha hai tu aurat bhi equality ke liye lazman hi job kare ya earn kar ke laaye, woh us ke eqvivalent kai kaam kar rahi hai kaafi hai : )

things are actualy very simple... : )...

I hope you ko sumjh aagaya hoga :P

haan samjh agya

[ummid]

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haan samjh agya

bauaht sumjhdar ho :$

[T&T]

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jahan tak me ne parha hai her mard ko aurat per fazeelat nahi... sirf usi mard ko hai jo us aurat ka kafeel ho....



I hope you ko sumjh aagaya hoga :P

A.O.A

Ummid G Yaqenan ap ka ilam mojh say ziada ho ga lykin mard ko sirf kafel honay ki sorat main he nahin balkay har sorat main orat par foqiat hay is misal k tor par 2 ortaon ki gawahi 1 mard k barabar hay, matal orat ki haysiat kam hay.
orat akeli lamby safar k liay nahin ja sakte
oumed hay app Ghore farmain ge

[Muhammad Ali Jawad]

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Mard aur oorat k barabri ka concept infact western concept hai.,,jiss main oorat ku ye baawar karaya jata hai..k woh bhi mard ke terhan her kam sahi taur par anjam day aktee hai....ye sirf aik concept hai..loogoon ku bey wqoof bananay ka..warana ager iss ku implement kia jata tu west main bhi 80% ya 90% oortain business enterpernuer hoteen..lykin haqeeqat main aisa nahi hai..

Jiss terhan physically aik oorat mard say weak hai..iss terhan say uss ka mental level bhi waisa nahi jisa aik mard ka hota hai..ye qudrati cheez hai..yahee wajah hai k Allah nay mard ku oorat per kuch muamlaat main fazeelat dee hai..maslan sirf mard per zamdari dali k woh apni family k liye kamay...iss terhan baher k aur bohut say kam bhi mard hi ki responsiblilty hain..Kyuon k unn ka mental level oorat say diffrerent hai..Aap ye dekh lain k Allah nay tamam Rasool -o-Anbiya kiram (s.w) sirf mard hi banay..issee terhan 02 oortoon ki gawahi 01 mard k barabar qarar dee hai..aur iss ki wajah sirf ye hai..k Allah hi apni takhleeq k baray main janata hai..k kiss ku kiay responsiblity denee hai..hum aur aap faisala kernay walay nahi hain..

Oorat ku mard k barabar qara dena aisay hi hai..k koi kahay k aik company ka director aur uss ka employee barbar hain ya nahi..?? kia dono barabr ho saktay hain..zahir hai k nahi..kyuon k dono ki resposnbilities main bohut farq hota hai..lehaza dodno barabar nahi hos saktay..

Kuch loog kehtay hain..k phir gunnah aur sawab main oooratin aur mard baraber kyuon hain.. tu jawab hai k sawab aur guunah ka ta'alooq jins (sex) say nahi bulkeh amaal say hota hai..jo jiss terhan k amal karay ga..uss ku wasisa hi sila milay ga..(Wallah Alam)

[S.Athar]

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A.O.A

Ummid G Yaqenan ap ka ilam mojh say ziada ho ga lykin mard ko sirf kafel honay ki sorat main he nahin balkay har sorat main orat par foqiat hay is misal k tor par 2 ortaon ki gawahi 1 mard k barabar hay, matal orat ki haysiat kam hay.
orat akeli lamby safar k liay nahin ja sakte
oumed hay app Ghore farmain ge

اسلام علیکم ٹی اینڈ ٹی صاحبان :)۔
آپ کی پہلی پوسٹ پڑھ کر مزا آگیا آپ نے دو لفظوں میں بات تمام کر دی بالکل صحیح کہہ رہے ہیں آپ کہ عورتیں اتنا شور نہیں مچاتیں کہ ہم مردوں کے برابر ہیں جتنا میڈیا اُن کےلئے ہلکان ہوا جاتا ہے جسکی وجہ واقعی یہی ہے کہ میڈیا کو اپنا سامان بیچنے کےلئے عورت ہی کی ضرورت ہے اور وہاں وہاں عورت کو استعمال کرتا ہے جہاں اُس کی قطعی ضرورت نہیں
دوسری پوسٹ میں بھی دو اہم نقطوں پر روشنی ڈالی ہے آپ نے واقعی صرف کفالت کی بنا پر ہی مرد کا درجہ اونچا نہیں بلکہ معاشرتی طور پر ہی اس کو عورت سے ایک درجہ زیادہ دیا گیا ہے۔
اُمید ہے آپ پیغام پر زیادہ سے زیادہ وقت بتایا کریں گے
اللہ جی آپ کو شاد رکھیں آباد رکھیں آمین

[ummid]

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A.O.A

Ummid G Yaqenan ap ka ilam mojh say ziada ho ga lykin mard ko sirf kafel honay ki sorat main he nahin balkay har sorat main orat par foqiat hay is misal k tor par 2 ortaon ki gawahi 1 mard k barabar hay, matal orat ki haysiat kam hay.
orat akeli lamby safar k liay nahin ja sakte
oumed hay app Ghore farmain ge

yahan physical appearance or mind structure ki baat nahi ho rahi thi...... huqooq w zimedari ki baat ho rahi thi... me ne usi silsile mein yeh likha tha... : )

[T&T]

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yahan physical appearance or mind structure ki baat nahi ho rahi thi...... huqooq w zimedari ki baat ho rahi thi... me ne usi silsile mein yeh likha tha... : )

Is payraiy main daykha jaiy to phir abgena g ki bat dorost hay k orat jantay bojhty kafalat ki zimadare nahin layte Ilawa kis Majbore k
so ousay haqoq k liay bhe is tarha say nahin sochna chahiey

or is bat ko mian pahlay he kah choke hon k itna shor am orat nahin macha rahe jitan zahir kia ja raha hayy

[ummid]

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Is payraiy main daykha jaiy to phir abgena g ki bat dorost hay k orat jantay bojhty kafalat ki zimadare nahin layte Ilawa kis Majbore k
so ousay haqoq k liay bhe is tarha say nahin sochna chahiey

or is bat ko mian pahlay he kah choke hon k itna shor am orat nahin macha rahe jitan zahir kia ja raha hayy

I agree... or me pehle bhi kahein keh chuki ho ke hooqoq-e-niswaan or Azad-e-niswaan do alag cheezein hain..

I am in favor of hooqoq-e-niswaan... : )