ana parast loog- part-II

[safia]

assalam o alaikum

umeed hey aap sub khariyat se hoongay......

ana prast loog iss ka pehla part unity ney likha tha jis mein hamein ana prast loogon ko discuss karna tha...

unity ki thread mein members key views parhnay key baad me ko tu yeh laga jese hum mein se koe bhi ana prast shakhs nahi hey.... agar koe hey ana prast tu vo koe aur loog hein..... aur vo loog vo hein jo hamaray ird gird rahtey hein....hum bhi iss society ka hissa hein aur hum bhi sub 2-2 rotiyan khatey hein.... hum bhi kisi se saath ana parasti ki hogi.... kisi se hassad, jealousy bhi ki hogi.... yeh kese mumkin hey hum kabhi ana parast na banain hoon.... yeh ho nahi sakta ky hum including myself kabhi ana parsti na ki ho.....

iss thread mein aap nay apni ana parasti batani hey....... kaam mushkal zaroor hey lakin yeh bhi apna ehtesaab karnay se kam nahi......


mein bhi bataon gi lakin thora agay chal kar

[thefire1]

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Walaikum Assalaam

Unity ka sawal tha kay aap ki family main koi ana parast log hain jiss per sab nay disucss kia including myself, jab baat apni zaat say munsalik hi nahin thi tou kiyon apna charcha sar-e-mehfil kartay :)

aap nay poocha hay tou sach sach baata daitay hain, waisay start iss sha'air say loonga aur maazrat bhi chahoon ga agar meri post tawalat ka shikaar hojayay tou jo meray bas main nahin hota jab likhta hoon tou dili jazbaat alfaaz ki shakal main iss screen per bikhartay jaatay hain!! :)

Itnay majboor thay hum apni ANA ki khaatir
Raiza raiza bhi huway aur bikhar bhi na sakay!

Baazauqaat MAJBOORIYAN insaan ko iss kadar jakaR laiti hain kay hum naa chatay huway bhi aisa kaam kar jaatay hain jiss main ANA ka ansar shaamil ho. Meri koshish yehi hoti hay kay main ANA yaa EGO ko apni zindagi main shaamil naa karoon kiyoni yeh insaan ko KHUDHGHARZ baanati hain aur dil may basnay waalay sab say KHOOBSURAT ehsaas MOHABBAT ka khoon kardaiti hay!

Aap ki post nay bhi zindagi kay kuch aik taalkh waqayiat yaad dila diye jab kisi majboori kay naa hotay huway bhi main apnay bohat say AZIZ dost apni ANA ki waja say ganwa baitha aur phir kabhi DOSTI karnay ki himmat hi nahin ki, friendly sab say hua magar dost na keh saka aur na hi acha dost saabit hua!!! (Maazrat kay yeh sab baatain meri MERAAS hain aur main inhain manzar-e-aam per share karnay say qaasir hoon:))

Khush rahyeh

Fi amaan ALLAH

[safia]

Re: ana parast loog- part-II

Walaikum Assalaam

Unity ka sawal tha kay aap ki family main koi ana parast log hain jiss per sab nay disucss kia including myself, jab baat apni zaat say munsalik hi nahin thi tou kiyon apna charcha sar-e-mehfil kartay :)

aap nay poocha hay tou sach sach baata daitay hain, waisay start iss sha'air say loonga aur maazrat bhi chahoon ga agar meri post tawalat ka shikaar hojayay tou jo meray bas main nahin hota jab likhta hoon tou dili jazbaat alfaaz ki shakal main iss screen per bikhartay jaatay hain!! :)

Itnay majboor thay hum apni ANA ki khaatir
Raiza raiza bhi huway aur bikhar bhi na sakay!

Baazauqaat MAJBOORIYAN insaan ko iss kadar jakaR laiti hain kay hum naa chatay huway bhi aisa kaam kar jaatay hain jiss main ANA ka ansar shaamil ho. Meri koshish yehi hoti hay kay main ANA yaa EGO ko apni zindagi main shaamil naa karoon kiyoni yeh insaan ko KHUDHGHARZ baanati hain aur dil may basnay waalay sab say KHOOBSURAT ehsaas MOHABBAT ka khoon kardaiti hay!

Aap ki post nay bhi zindagi kay kuch aik taalkh waqayiat yaad dila diye jab kisi majboori kay naa hotay huway bhi main apnay bohat say AZIZ dost apni ANA ki waja say ganwa baitha aur phir kabhi DOSTI karnay ki himmat hi nahin ki, friendly sab say hua magar dost na keh saka aur na hi acha dost saabit hua!!! (Maazrat kay yeh sab baatain meri MERAAS hain aur main inhain manzar-e-aam per share karnay say qaasir hoon:))

Khush rahyeh

Fi amaan ALLAH

such mein hum kabhi kabhi apni ek choti si baat ko anna ka masla bana letey hein kay hum khud hee uss anna ka shikaar ban jatey hein.....

ali mein jab univ mein puhnchi tu me ko meri ek professor nay ek nasihat ki thi kay tum uiv tu aa gayi ho lakin khud ko zaroor badal lena.... agar tum khud ko univ mein badal na saki tu tum khud ko kabhi nahi badal pao gi...... kuchh din tu mein pareshaan rahi kay iss madam ney meri kia baat note ki jo ussey me ko nasihat karni parri.... tu ek din meinay poochh hee liya tu vo hans kar kahti hein aap mein koe burrai nahi nahi me ko koe aap mein fault nazar nahi aaya hey...... vo kahti hein yeh nasihat mein apnay sub students ko karti hoon kay khud ko badalna seekho change is life aur kisi baat ko fazool mein apna anna ka masla na banao....

[AbgeenA]

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Walekum Salam:hii:
anna yakinan sabhi me hoti he or kai jagah rokti he,deewar banti he,koshish karni chaey k is ko maar saken,me Allah se bohat dua karti hun k mujhe mere nasf k shar se bchaey.mujhe meri apni nzron me hakeer rakhe.lekin kahin kahin ye havi ho jati he khas kar un logon k leay jinhon ne kisi time me meri ana ko bohat buri tarah majruh kia ho.me kisi ko nuksan pohanchane ka soch bhi nahi sakti,meri ana serf ye kehti he k door raho ese logon se,mujh se phir dikhawe ka ikhlaq nahi nibhaya jata....or ye baat mujhe pareshan bhi karti he

[saraah]

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waalikum aslam

haan muj me achi khasi anaa hai jiss ko maarnay ki me haqeer si koshish krti rehti hoon lakin yeh janay ka naam nae leti

[thefire1]

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Dear Safia..... main kisi ko nasihat tou nahin karta kiyonki mera manna hay kay aqalmand ko iss ki zaroorat nahin aur baywaqoof uss per amal nahin karayga, magar aik baat zaroor kahoon ga kay apnay say baRoon ki baaton ka aur bilkhusoos teachers, waldain ki baatoon ko gira ki tarah apnay daaman main bandh lain, zindagi main bohat kamyaabi milay gi...

Jo kaam aap khushasloobi say aur khushmizaaji say kar saktay hain woh JANGAIN laR kar bhi nahin karsaktay, ANA aik aisa zehar hay jo insaan kay wajood ko andar hi andar KHOOKHLA kar daita hay, aur mujhay khushi hay kay main ab bhi SANBBHAL gaya hoon, zaati tajurbay ki bina per aur apnay say baRoon ki nasihat ki bina per kiyonki jab baRay koi baat kartay hain tou uss main ZINDAGI ka TAJURBA shaamil hota hay jo hum samjhnay say qaasir hotay hain, magar guzarta waqt humain bohat kuch seekhnay per majboor kardaita hay!!!

Dil chata hay likhta rahoon aur likhta hi rahoo, magar aap sab ki BORIYAT ka poora poora khayal hay mujhay tou apnay kalam ko yahin MEHDOOD kartay huway wohi riwayetti magar sachay alfaaz kehta hoon, KHUSH RAHYEH :)

Fi amaan ALLAH

such mein hum kabhi kabhi apni ek choti si baat ko anna ka masla bana letey hein kay hum khud hee uss anna ka shikaar ban jatey hein.....

ali mein jab univ mein puhnchi tu me ko meri ek professor nay ek nasihat ki thi kay tum uiv tu aa gayi ho lakin khud ko zaroor badal lena.... agar tum khud ko univ mein badal na saki tu tum khud ko kabhi nahi badal pao gi...... kuchh din tu mein pareshaan rahi kay iss madam ney meri kia baat note ki jo ussey me ko nasihat karni parri.... tu ek din meinay poochh hee liya tu vo hans kar kahti hein aap mein koe burrai nahi nahi me ko koe aap mein fault nazar nahi aaya hey...... vo kahti hein yeh nasihat mein apnay sub students ko karti hoon kay khud ko badalna seekho change is life aur kisi baat ko fazool mein apna anna ka masla na banao....

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: ana parast loog- part-II

assalam o alaikum

umeed hey aap sub khariyat se hoongay......

ana prast loog iss ka pehla part unity ney likha tha jis mein hamein ana prast loogon ko discuss karna tha...

unity ki thread mein members key views parhnay key baad me ko tu yeh laga jese hum mein se koe bhi ana prast shakhs nahi hey.... agar koe hey ana prast tu vo koe aur loog hein..... aur vo loog vo hein jo hamaray ird gird rahtey hein....hum bhi iss society ka hissa hein aur hum bhi sub 2-2 rotiyan khatey hein.... hum bhi kisi se saath ana parasti ki hogi.... kisi se hassad, jealousy bhi ki hogi.... yeh kese mumkin hey hum kabhi ana parast na banain hoon.... yeh ho nahi sakta ky hum including myself kabhi ana parsti na ki ho.....

iss thread mein aap nay apni ana parasti batani hey....... kaam mushkal zaroor hey lakin yeh bhi apna ehtesaab karnay se kam nahi......


mein bhi bataon gi lakin thora agay chal kar

W sallam....
Yehh kehh dainaa ghallat hoo ga kehh Mujh main anaa balikol bhii nahii,,,,,Jiss shakhss main self respect kaa Shaooor haii uss main aanaa bhii zarroor mojood haii........

Main khial Rakhtta hoo dossttoo kayy mammallay main apnii anaa koo dabaa karr rakhooo:lpop:

[safia]

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Walekum Salam:hii:
anna yakinan sabhi me hoti he or kai jagah rokti he,deewar banti he,koshish karni chaey k is ko maar saken,me Allah se bohat dua karti hun k mujhe mere nasf k shar se bchaey.mujhe meri apni nzron me hakeer rakhe.lekin kahin kahin ye havi ho jati he khas kar un logon k leay jinhon ne kisi time me meri ana ko bohat buri tarah majruh kia ho.me kisi ko nuksan pohanchane ka soch bhi nahi sakti,meri ana serf ye kehti he k door raho ese logon se,mujh se phir dikhawe ka ikhlaq nahi nibhaya jata....or ye baat mujhe pareshan bhi karti he

door rahnay se koe faraq nahi parta..... halaat key saath datt kar insaan ko muqabla karna chahiye............ yeh duniya hey hum kabhi kisi ki ana ka shikar hojatey hein kabhi kisi ko shikaar kar detey hein...... yeh bombay hey meri jaan yahan sub chalta hey......:khi:

[safia]

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waalikum aslam

haan muj me achi khasi anaa hai jiss ko maarnay ki me haqeer si koshish krti rehti hoon lakin yeh janay ka naam nae leti

pata hey yeh bhi koe choti baat nahi kay hum khud bhi tasleem karein kay hum mein bhi ana parasti hoti hey...... tussi great ho jee.....:salam: vese yeh cheez meray under bhi hay lakin mein koshash karti hoon kay her cheez ko positive sochon......

[safia]

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W sallam....
Yehh kehh dainaa ghallat hoo ga kehh Mujh main anaa balikol bhii nahii,,,,,Jiss shakhss main self respect kaa Shaooor haii uss main aanaa bhii zarroor mojood haii........

Main khial Rakhtta hoo dossttoo kayy mammallay main apnii anaa koo dabaa karr rakhooo:lpop:

anna ko dabaa key rakhna bhi ek azeem qurbani hey................

[safia]

Re: ana parast loog- part-II

Dear Safia..... main kisi ko nasihat tou nahin karta kiyonki mera manna hay kay aqalmand ko iss ki zaroorat nahin aur baywaqoof uss per amal nahin karayga, magar aik baat zaroor kahoon ga kay apnay say baRoon ki baaton ka aur bilkhusoos teachers, waldain ki baatoon ko gira ki tarah apnay daaman main bandh lain, zindagi main bohat kamyaabi milay gi...

Jo kaam aap khushasloobi say aur khushmizaaji say kar saktay hain woh JANGAIN laR kar bhi nahin karsaktay, ANA aik aisa zehar hay jo insaan kay wajood ko andar hi andar KHOOKHLA kar daita hay, aur mujhay khushi hay kay main ab bhi SANBBHAL gaya hoon, zaati tajurbay ki bina per aur apnay say baRoon ki nasihat ki bina per kiyonki jab baRay koi baat kartay hain tou uss main ZINDAGI ka TAJURBA shaamil hota hay jo hum samjhnay say qaasir hotay hain, magar guzarta waqt humain bohat kuch seekhnay per majboor kardaita hay!!!

Dil chata hay likhta rahoon aur likhta hi rahoo, magar aap sab ki BORIYAT ka poora poora khayal hay mujhay tou apnay kalam ko yahin MEHDOOD kartay huway wohi riwayetti magar sachay alfaaz kehta hoon, KHUSH RAHYEH :)

Fi amaan ALLAH

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[AbgeenA]

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door rahnay se koe faraq nahi parta..... halaat key saath datt kar insaan ko muqabla karna chahiye............ yeh duniya hey hum kabhi kisi ki ana ka shikar hojatey hein kabhi kisi ko shikaar kar detey hein...... yeh bombay hey meri jaan yahan sub chalta hey......:khi:

[thefire1]

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aksar member lambi posts nahi parhtey lakin aap please likhtey raha karo..... agar aap ka point of view lamba hota hey tu no problem.... mein agar aabi2cool ki laaaaaaaaambi posts parhsakti hoon tu aap ki tu usskey muqablay mein kuchh bhi nahi.......... 372-haha

[ummid]

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[safia]

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iss se mein kia samjhon?? vese yeh do rotiyun wala kia chakar hey???:khi: