Zindagi me

[Capt.Abdur Rehman]

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Aslamoalikum friends:hii:
zindagi me ham jab koi plan ya prog bnate hen to kabhi kabhi wo pura nahi hota,chahe ho short time plan ho ya long time planning,ese me kuch log depress ho jate hen k haey ye socha tha nahi hua,kuch parwah nahi karte...
aap kia karte hen?:think:

me backup me alternate plan rekhta hun ...so chill kerta hun :hairdrayer:

[ummid]

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Aslamoalikum friends:hii:
zindagi me ham jab koi plan ya prog bnate hen to kabhi kabhi wo pura nahi hota,chahe ho short time plan ho ya long time planning,ese me kuch log depress ho jate hen k haey ye socha tha nahi hua,kuch parwah nahi karte...
aap kia karte hen?:think:

waalaikumasalam
I do have plans.. but no planning for them.. :D...
am ready for everything... like kabhi bhi kuch bhi... :$.. and this may be because I give more importance to my self... rather than other factorz...

[Masood]

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Wa allaikum salaam Rita :)

Hazrat Ali KaramAllah Wajhuu ka qaul hai keh:

"main ney apney iradon key tootney sey Khuda ki zaat ko pehchana hai"

Iradey ham sab kartey hain, magar hota wohi hai jo Allah Tala ko manzoor hota hai. Jisney Allah Tala ki khushnuudi ko apna liya, wohi kamyaab raha. Agar koi irada koi planning kamyab nahin hoti to samajh lijiyey keh Allah Tala ko kuchh aur manzoor tha. Aur usi mein behtari hogi.

Ab yeh kaha hai to iska hargiz matlab yeh nahin keh aap apney iradey ya planning key hasool key liyey jid-o-jehad na karein - jo ikhtiyaar Rab ney hamein diya hai, woh yeh hai keh ham apney iradey ko haasil karney key liyey tag-o-do karein, mehnat karein jo keh jaiiz ho - main aksar aik jumla istimaal karta hon keh tadbeer kar key khud ko taqdeer per chhorr dein :)

Aslamoalikum friends:hii:
zindagi me ham jab koi plan ya prog bnate hen to kabhi kabhi wo pura nahi hota,chahe ho short time plan ho ya long time planning,ese me kuch log depress ho jate hen k haey ye socha tha nahi hua,kuch parwah nahi karte...
aap kia karte hen?:think:

[WASI ANJUM]

Re: Zindagi me

Aslamoalikum friends:hii:
zindagi me ham jab koi plan ya prog bnate hen to kabhi kabhi wo pura nahi hota,chahe ho short time plan ho ya long time planning,ese me kuch log depress ho jate hen k haey ye socha tha nahi hua,kuch parwah nahi karte...
aap kia karte hen?:think:

Mein jo sochta hon aur woh pura nahi hota to Allah Pak ki merzi samjh ker woh kaam chhor deta hon shayed mere haq mein woh plan behter nahi tha
isi liye pura nahi hua

[.]

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dil kharab hoo jata hai or kia

or pher nai plannings shuru :lol:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Zindagi me

Aslamoalikum friends:hii:
zindagi me ham jab koi plan ya prog bnate hen to kabhi kabhi wo pura nahi hota,chahe ho short time plan ho ya long time planning,ese me kuch log depress ho jate hen k haey ye socha tha nahi hua,kuch parwah nahi karte...
aap kia karte hen?:think:

Wa alaikum aslam!

Masood ne start he mein aik achi baat share ki.

Further mein yeh kahoon ga ke kuch unavoidable circumstances ki waja se insaan ko wo bhi dekhna per jata he jo us ne expect nahi kia hota. Aisi situation thoori der ke liye to mujay stirr up ker deti he, I remain quite and keep working. Don't show temper or aggression or whatsoever. The strong part of my personality is that I am relatively quick in comming back to my normal state after such incidents. I accept the changes whether it be positive and negative.

[RulzZ]

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Aslamoalikum friends:hii:
aap kia karte hen?:think:

w/salam,

maiN ba'qaida koi planning nahe karta, sochta hoon aur kar guzarta hoon, baad maiN nateja acha ho to theek, na ho to mitti pao sanu ki :honh:

[Z.]

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Aslamoalikum friends:hii:
zindagi me ham jab koi plan ya prog bnate hen to kabhi kabhi wo pura nahi hota,chahe ho short time plan ho ya long time planning,ese me kuch log depress ho jate hen k haey ye socha tha nahi hua,kuch parwah nahi karte...
aap kia karte hen?:think:

walaikum salam!

Agar kabhi aeysa ho tau mey hamesha khud sey sawal kerti hun : "what Next?"

[BhaTaktii RooH]

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Aslamoalikum friends:hii:

و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله و بركاته

Hazrat Ali KaramAllah Wajhuu ka qaul hai keh:

"main ney apney iradon key tootney sey Khuda ki zaat ko pehchana hai"

Iradey ham sab kartey hain, magar hota wohi hai jo Allah Tala ko manzoor hota hai. Jisney Allah Tala ki khushnuudi ko apna liya, wohi kamyaab raha. Agar koi irada koi planning kamyab nahin hoti to samajh lijiyey keh Allah Tala ko kuchh aur manzoor tha. Aur usi mein behtari hogi.

:em: totally agreed ...
hum bhi bus yahii kuch kehna chahtey they...:shyy:

[Yaaram]

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walikum salam

main ne kabhi bhi waqt se pehle plan nahi kia. pehle kia karta tha, per waqt ne bohat uncertainities dikhai hain ke in sab cheezoN per aitmaad nahi raha. is lye ab kuch bhi plan nahi karta.

[saraah]

Re: Zindagi me

Aslamoalikum friends:hii:
zindagi me ham jab koi plan ya prog bnate hen to kabhi kabhi wo pura nahi hota,chahe ho short time plan ho ya long time planning,ese me kuch log depress ho jate hen k haey ye socha tha nahi hua,kuch parwah nahi karte...
aap kia karte hen?:think:

waalikum asslam

holay holay jeena aa hi jata hai
pehlay hota tha depression magr jese jese mature hotay hain saleeqa khud bakhud aajat hai ....

lachak honi chahiye aap k iradon me aur sab se barri baat ALLAH pe bharosa ,k jo krta hai ALLAH KRTA HAI AUR ALLAH JO KRTA HAI SAHEE KRTA HAI :rose

[AbgeenA]

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jeeee bilkul marey laey yeh donoo soortyin hamesha mufeed rahi hain ku k mere baap ka siya e shafqat hamesha marey sath sath rehta hai


Aur Dua to likha mitta deti hai sooooo yeh he kaam kerta hun mein hamesha sey

Allah ap k sar par ye saya tader salamat rakhe.ameen:dua

me backup me alternate plan rekhta hun ...so chill kerta hun :hairdrayer:

achaa

waalaikumasalam
I do have plans.. but no planning for them.. :D...

am ready for everything... like kabhi bhi kuch bhi... :$.. and this may be because I give more importance to my self... rather than other factorz...

ahaann..achaa

Wa allaikum salaam Rita :)

Hazrat Ali KaramAllah Wajhuu ka qaul hai keh:

"main ney apney iradon key tootney sey Khuda ki zaat ko pehchana hai"

Iradey ham sab kartey hain, magar hota wohi hai jo Allah Tala ko manzoor hota hai. Jisney Allah Tala ki khushnuudi ko apna liya, wohi kamyaab raha. Agar koi irada koi planning kamyab nahin hoti to samajh lijiyey keh Allah Tala ko kuchh aur manzoor tha. Aur usi mein behtari hogi.

Ab yeh kaha hai to iska hargiz matlab yeh nahin keh aap apney iradey ya planning key hasool key liyey jid-o-jehad na karein - jo ikhtiyaar Rab ney hamein diya hai, woh yeh hai keh ham apney iradey ko haasil karney key liyey tag-o-do karein, mehnat karein jo keh jaiiz ho - main aksar aik jumla istimaal karta hon keh tadbeer kar key khud ko taqdeer per chhorr dein :)

bohat khubsurat baat kahi ap ne:)

Mein jo sochta hon aur woh pura nahi hota to Allah Pak ki merzi samjh ker woh kaam chhor deta hon shayed mere haq mein woh plan behter nahi tha
isi liye pura nahi hua

yehi behter soch hoti he:thmbup:

[AbgeenA]

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dil kharab hoo jata hai or kia

or pher nai plannings shuru :lol:

kharab dil ko theek kese karti hon Anchal?:khi:

Wa alaikum aslam!

Masood ne start he mein aik achi baat share ki.

Further mein yeh kahoon ga ke kuch unavoidable circumstances ki waja se insaan ko wo bhi dekhna per jata he jo us ne expect nahi kia hota. Aisi situation thoori der ke liye to mujay stirr up ker deti he, I remain quite and keep working. Don't show temper or aggression or whatsoever. The strong part of my personality is that I am relatively quick in comming back to my normal state after such incidents. I accept the changes whether it be positive and negative.

ap to huey bahadar insan:hii:

w/salam,

maiN ba'qaida koi planning nahe karta, sochta hoon aur kar guzarta hoon, baad maiN nateja acha ho to theek, na ho to mitti pao sanu ki :honh:

itni mitti kahan se late hen ap?:think:

walaikum salam!

Agar kabhi aeysa ho tau mey hamesha khud sey sawal kerti hun : "what Next?"

to jawab kia mailta he?:think:

:em: totally agreed ...
hum bhi bus yahii kuch kehna chahtey they...:shyy:

g achaa

walikum salam

main ne kabhi bhi waqt se pehle plan nahi kia. pehle kia karta tha, per waqt ne bohat uncertainities dikhai hain ke in sab cheezoN per aitmaad nahi raha. is lye ab kuch bhi plan nahi karta.

achaa

waalikum asslam

holay holay jeena aa hi jata hai
pehlay hota tha depression magr jese jese mature hotay hain saleeqa khud bakhud aajat hai ....

lachak honi chahiye aap k iradon me aur sab se barri baat ALLAH pe bharosa ,k jo krta hai ALLAH KRTA HAI AUR ALLAH JO KRTA HAI SAHEE KRTA HAI :rose

bilkul theek:)

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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ap to huey bahadar insan:hii:

Oh really

[AbgeenA]

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Oh really

ab itna show me ane ki bhi zarurat nahi hepaon phisal gya to gir paren ge:khi: