Are You Perfectionist???

[fari]

Re: Are You Perfectionist???

mery kolon kisay din chittar na kha laien oh we sare aam .. . .
choti choti batoon ko issu bana kar dilon main kadoorateen paltay ho u log 372-shed pehly hi is dunia main ikhlas ki kami hy

abi bhai baat ka itna issue ha nahi jitna ap barha kar kar rhay hian us ko...ap bas plz araam karay apni tabiyat per bojh na dalay:tasali:

[aabi2cool]

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abi bhai baat ka itna issue ha nahi jitna ap barha kar kar rhay hian us ko...ap bas plz araam karay apni tabiyat per bojh na dalay:tasali:

ziyada paddi na ban tay mery kolon koi sun la laween yani u mean baat ka batangar main banata hon

[saraah]

Re: Are You Perfectionist???

o chalo bas v karo hun :tauba

kuj v nae hoya :rose

[aabi2cool]

Re: Are You Perfectionist???

o chalo bas v karo hun :tauba

kuj v nae hoya :rose

tum bhi dafa hojao pehly larti ho phir mujhy bayizat karti ho tum dono jao main u dono k sath naee bolta 372-shed

[saraah]

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tum kitnay gehray gehray sawal karnay lagi ho na

aur muje pata hai aap ko kuch aata jata nahi :ANYWORD10

To some extent I feel myself perfectionist but with a lower degree not neurotic which is of intense degree.

Mein kafi moaamlon mein perfectionist hoon, ghar walon ko chooti chooti baaton per lecture dene lag jata hoon. Mujay doosron ke kaam se satisfaction nahi milti, bohat ziada behas kerta hoon. Shayad kisi ka koi kaam ya art mujay pasand aata ho, mujay hameesha lagta he ke is kaam mein abi bohat improvement hona baki he, satisfaction level low rehta he. Jub ke jo kaam mein khud apnay haath se kerta hoon mujay ziada tasali usi kaam se hoti he.

Perfectionist hona mere nazdeed aik positive attitude he, lekin mere ghar walon aur deegar akhbaab ke nazdeed yeh negative attitude he. Waja, ziaada loog careless hotay hein

aap ne kaha lower degree lakin muje tou nae lag raha lower degree...aap k baqi reply se...

apki adaatain to bilkul mere Sartaaj ki tarah hain tobaaaa

tum tou phir buri phansin372-scare

apne ROOMS ki safai , arrangements, her tarah ki hygiene mai kabhi compromise nahi kerti hoon. aur Naa hi apne ghar ke members mai is ki Kami dehk sakti hoon.


Aur.. ghar me kisi ki bhi foulness bardasht nahi hoti... activity her Kaam me dehkna chahti hoon aur khud bhi kerti hoon.

iss se doosron pe kya asar parrta hai?
baqi family members pe?:mm:

asslamoalikum respected members
walekumsalam

kya aap perfectionist hain???
keh sakte hen
agar hain tou kya har muamlay me?
doosron ki had tak nahi lekin jahan tak mujhe khud kuch karna ho to puri koshish karti hon...isi leay me doosron ki help lene se behter he k khud hi kaam ko paya-e-takmeel tak pohanchane ki koshish karti hon or jab tak kaam mukamal na ho jaey chaen se nahi beth sakti.isi waja se me ne dheron cheezen seekhi hen
agar kisi hadd tak tou kin moqon par???
mukhtalif mokon par
ya phir ''guzara'' krnay ka fann jantay hain???
badqismati se hamara moashre is "guzara" policy par amal pera he...choti si misal dekh lo...bijli k polls or us ki wires....guzare k jeeti jagti tasaweer....lagta he sara system hi guzara par chal raha he jo aik intehai ghalat baat he

aur haan
yeh perfectionism aap k nazdeek positive attitude hai k negative???
zaher he agr is ko positively lia jaey to is me achai k hi pehloo hen...lekin khud insan kuch na kare lekin doosron ke sar par sawar ho kar un se kaam k perfect hone ki umeed rakhe to log chirne lagte hen to pehel khud se karni chaey...ta k baki log takleed karen

hmmm
infradi aur ijtamai satah pe it has differnt values na....
qaom k hawalay se aap ne theek kaha...:thmbup:magar zati zindagi me banday ko itna perfectionist nae hona chahjiye..
actually mere ammi abbu dono perfectionist hain ghar k muamlaat me...but me ne unkio dekh k hi yeh faisla kiya hai k muje nae bn,na perfectionist....
khud pe zulam krtay ho aap yaar ....

[fari]

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ziyada paddi na ban tay mery kolon koi sun la laween yani u mean baat ka batangar main banata hon

maina jo kahna tha kah dia ab ap continue rakhay baat372-haha

[saraah]

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tum bhi dafa hojao pehly larti ho phir mujhy bayizat karti ho tum dono jao main u dono k sath naee bolta 372-shed

aabi bhai me ne aap ko kuch nae kaha...plz muje esa na kahain...
aap ne meri favour me baat ki ... i cant express in words what i feel..:rose

aur mere se aap kese naraz ho saktay ho...me tou aap ki ladli behan hoon...

aur fari b apni nikki behan hai koi masla nae....:D:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Are You Perfectionist???

to phir honay wala likho na

Yaar aaj kul ki larkiyoon se jo tum aur mein expect kerte hein, larkiyaan waisi nahi hein

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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aap ne kaha lower degree lakin muje tou nae lag raha lower degree...aap k baqi reply se...

Tum isay lower degree se he associate ker sakti ho. Kyoon ke jo neurotic Perfectionist hotay hein wo apnay kaam se bhi mutmain nahi hotay, jub ke mein ho jata hoon

[aabi2cool]

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Yaar aaj kul ki larkiyoon se jo tum aur mein expect kerte hein, larkiyaan waisi nahi hein

:thmbup::salam:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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:thmbup::salam:

Yahan pe aik larki aisi bhi he jis ki shadi ka abi door door tak koi amkaan nahi lekin wo kehti he ke mere buchay Allah miyaan ke paas jhoolay mein hein, ub tum he batao ke hum karein to kia karein :embarasse

[aabi2cool]

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Yahan pe aik larki aisi bhi he jis ki shadi ka abi door door tak koi amkaan nahi lekin wo kehti he ke mere buchay Allah miyaan ke paas jhoolay mein hein, ub tum he batao ke hum karein to kia karein :embarasse

tum chup karo bus372-shed

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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tum chup karo bus372-shed

Molvi yeh to koi baat na hui. Kia tum yahan pe shariyat naafaz nahi ker saktay, kese molvi ho :embarasse

[saraah]

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Tum isay lower degree se he associate ker sakti ho. Kyoon ke jo neurotic Perfectionist hotay hein wo apnay kaam se bhi mutmain nahi hotay, jub ke mein ho jata hoon

hmmm right....
wese aap ko irritation nae hoti..suppose jo kaam aap khud kr lete hain esi soorat me aap waqt ki kami ya kisi aur wajah se khud nae kr patay aur doosray banday ka kaam aap ko mutmian nae krta tou aap andar hi andar tention me nae rahain gay....:ANYWORD7
isnt it painful

Yaar aaj kul ki larkiyoon se jo tum aur mein expect kerte hein, larkiyaan waisi nahi hein

:thmbup::salam:

Yahan pe aik larki aisi bhi he jis ki shadi ka abi door door tak koi amkaan nahi lekin wo kehti he ke mere buchay Allah miyaan ke paas jhoolay mein hein, ub tum he batao ke hum karein to kia karein :embarasse

tum chup karo bus372-shed

Molvi yeh to koi baat na hui. Kia tum yahan pe shariyat naafaz nahi ker saktay, kese molvi ho :embarasse

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[mano_billi]

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asslamoalikum respected members

teddy

kya aap perfectionist hain???

agar hain tou kya har muamlay me?

agar kisi hadd tak tou kin moqon par???

ya phir ''guzara'' krnay ka fann jantay hain???

aur haan
yeh perfectionism aap k nazdeek positive attitude hai k negative???

:mm::mm::mm:

Walaikum Assalam teddy

mere khayal se perfect sirf Allah ji ki zaat he or koi cheez perfect nahi ho sakti :mm:
insaan to wase bhee ghalti ka putla he :tasali: ghaltiya insaan se hi hoti hein

me baht mistakes karti hu or koshish karti hu apne ap ko better banane ki :lpop:
likin perfect nahi :na: