Zindagi ki aik aeysi haqeeqat...

[Z.]

P.S mujhey aap sab ko dukhi nahi kerna tha sirf ye key I just wanted to talk it out....

[SherAli]

Re: Zindagi ki aik aeysi haqeeqat...

wa'laikum as-salaam,

nahiiN, aisa na socheN...we are all adluts here and to talk about facts of life such as death is wholly appropriate and an adult thing to do which is, no doubt, the most certain thing in life.

kullu nafsin zaayeqat-ul-maut!

yeh to aayegii aur aa kar rahegii, yake ba'd deegare...aaj uskii baarii hai to kal merii hogii...its a bitter fact that, like it or not, we have to swallow. Allah kii razaa ke aage sar-e-tasleem Kham kar denaa hii ai'n 'ibaadat hai.

sab se pahle to aapkii cousin kii is jahaan-e-faanii se naa-gahaanii ruKhsat kii jaaNkaah Khabar sun kar dil malool ho gayaa aur Allah se du'aa kartaa huN k Allah marHooma kii maGhfirat farmaaye aur unkii rooH ko jannat-ul-firdaus meN 'aalaa maqaam 'ataa farmaaye aur muta'alliqeen ko sabr-e-jameel...aameen :dua inna nillaahii wa inna ilaihii reje'oon.

mujhe aHsaas hai k bichaRne waaloN kaa Gham kis qadar gahraa hotaa hai. maiN ne apnii vaalidah ko baali 'umr meN khoyaa phir vaalid saaHib ko bhi awail-e-jawanii meN kho diyaa. unke jaane kaa Gham aaj bhi vaisa hii haraa hai jaise roz-e-awwal ko thaa par yeh soch kar taskeen-e-Khaatir kar letaa huN k vo [insha Allah] behtar jagah par hoNge. unkii baateN yaad aatii haiN to kaleja muNh ko aataa hai magar aaj bhii maiN unkii bataayii huii deenii aur dunyaavii baateN yaad kar ke sabaq letaa huN...maiN unkaa yeh qaul kabhii nahiiN bhool saktaa k:

"beTaa, moHabbat sirf yeh hii nahiiN k maaN baap, bhai bahen, azeez o 'aqaarib, hamsaayoN, buzurgoN kii Khidmat karo bal k asl moHabbat yeh hai k Allah kii bandagii saHeeH ma'noN meN kareN jaisa k Uskaa Haq hai to insha Allah ham sab jannat meN yakjaa hoNge jo daai'mii rihaaish hogi..vahaN milne kii bharpoor koshish karnaa aur yehii asl moHabbat hai!"

bas, jaanewaale kii yaad rah jaatii hai aur vo yaad jab aaye to maayoos honaa / udaas honaa ek fitrati 'amal hai magar ham Allah ke nek bande ban kar qayaamat ke roz surKh_rooii Haasil kar ke un se jaa milne kii sa'ii kareN to yeh hamaare Haq meN behtar hogaa :)

[Gul]

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P.S mujhey aap sab ko dukhi nahi kerna tha sirf ye key I just wanted to talk it out....

Is sk siwa filhaal kuch nahi ..
But buhat kuch kehnay ko hai ....
jab ............I will talk after a while ..! :(

[Gul]

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kabhi sochein tu lafzon ki be-zubaani ka khiyal aata hai
kabhi be-zubaan lafz Kattari ban jaatay hein
kabhi be-naam lamhat zindgee
aur kabhi rang bahri zindgi ...KHO jaati hai

yehi .....Jeewan hai

aap ki iss post ko parh kar kuch zukham tazay ho gay ..

apnouN ko Kho deynay ka dukh ...
Buhat Gehraa bul-keh Kaali Ghatta ki tarah ka siyah hota hai
Jo mosamouN k Badalnay se Badlta nahi ...

Bass ...Sab Muhabbat k khel hein ..
Aur issi muhabbat mein hamein janay walay ..
Buhat yaad aatay hein

Magar iss muhabbat mein hum oss muhabbat ko nahi bhoolein
Jo sab se azeem hai ..

Jo Haq hai ..
Jiss ko hee sirf baqa hai ..
Sab ko ossi HAq k pass Loatna hai

Dua hai k ..Hum sab Khatima HAQ ----Bar haq par ho ameen


Buhat kuch hai dil mein ...!magar ...

!!!!!!!!!!!

Allah talaah Marhooma k..sab darjay Buland karay ameen
Aur Peechay reh janay walouN ko onn k liyay Sadqa-e Jaariyaa bana-ay

ameen sum ameen


:rose :rose :rose :rose

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Zindagi ki aik aeysi haqeeqat...

Ina'lillah'e'wa'ina'elehe'raje'oon.

Death is a universal established truth, lets not talk about it ke yeh aaye gi he and blah blah.

Aap ki cousin sirf 30 years ki thi, to jawan mout pe bohat dukh hota he, i know. Mere mamu ke ghar 3 saal mein tabahi hui. Mera cousin shahid 27, waheed 30, waheed's wife 31, his sisters 20 and 23 respectively, his both parents. Yeh aik he ghar mein 3 saal ke ander loog gaye. Pura ghar khali ho gaya. Aur yeh sabi loog aik bharpoor life guzar rahay thay. aur shahid ke ilawa sub ki natural death hui, chand aik din beemari, treatment jari tha, aur phir yeh loog apni neend mein he chal basay.

Anyhow, waqee ajeeb lagta he, ke koi aap ka pyaara aap ki nazron ke samnay se chala jaye aur phir wo insaan sirf yaad ban ke reh jata he, we can't help it :)

[Capt.Abdur Rehman]

Re: Zindagi ki aik aeysi haqeeqat...

Inna-Lilaah hi wa inna illeaihe raajioon..
May Allah shower his countless blessings upon your cousin in the world hereafter and make u able to bear this time of grief and pain with abundance of patience..ameen...
yes no doubt mot to aik na aik din aa ker hi rehti ha...lakin jahan mot aati ha waha hi...mera apna experience ha ..waha hi Allah nay mutbaadil nizam terteeb dia hota ha ...yaani jab koi aapka piyaara aap say alag hota ha to ..automatically kuch time kay baad aapko asa sabar aa jata ha kay aap uss ki kami ko baghair roye poora hota daikhtay hain..phr mazeed yay kay ..aapko uss jasi shaksiat ki jhalkian routine life main dikhti rehti hain.aor aap ko din ba din itemenaan naseeb hota ha..Allah apnay bando say buhat pyaar kerta ha na..isi liay Allah buht ssari karsaziaan bhi saath hi main terteeb day dayta ha ...aor hummain pata bhi nahi chalta....:)

[saraah]

Re: Zindagi ki aik aeysi haqeeqat...

P.S mujhey aap sab ko dukhi nahi kerna tha sirf ye key I just wanted to talk it out....

WASLAAM....EXTREMELY SORRY XENYA.....UNABLE TO SAY ANYTHING...

[ummid]

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Wasalam:rose

[aabi2cool]

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انا للہ وانا الیہ راجعون

[.]

Re: Zindagi ki aik aeysi haqeeqat...

Inna Lilahi wa inna elahi rajeoun :rose

[rehman]

Re: Zindagi ki aik aeysi haqeeqat...

P.S mujhey aap sab ko dukhi nahi kerna tha sirf ye key I just wanted to talk it out....

bahut afsos howa aap ki cousin ki death ka sun kar......... allah un ki magfrat farmai aur aap sub ko sabar ki taufeek......

[sccorpion81]

Re: Zindagi ki aik aeysi haqeeqat...

P.S mujhey aap sab ko dukhi nahi kerna tha sirf ye key I just wanted to talk it out....

Mar Jaey tu Barh Jati Hai Insan Ki Qeemat
Zinda Rahay tu Jeenay ki Saza Deti Hai Yeh Duniya

Inna Lillah e Waina Ileh he Raje'oon...Allah Taalah aap ki cousin ki Maghfrat kere ...

aap ne bilkul sahi kaha k jab insan pass nahien hota tu tab hamain pata chalta hai k wo hamari zindagey main kitni ahmiat rakhta tha

Mera Best and childhood friend jis ki wajha se aaj main jo kuch bhi hooon aik accident me us ki death ho gaee 2004 me .... us k baad aaj tak ham

saray friends us ko her qadam per her mushkil me yaad kerte hain k kaash aaj wo yahan per hota tu yooon na hota aur nahien tu koi mashwara hi deta is tarha ki bhot c batain hain jo ham kisi se share kerna chatay hain laikin ker nahien paatay aur jis se kerna chahtay hain wo hamaray pass jab nahien hota tu us ki kami mehsoos hoti hai .... aur baazzz logon ko ham apni zindagey main ignor bhi kerte rehtay hain yeh jo ooper me ne shair likha hai inho logon ki taraf ishara kerta hai laikin jab wo nahien hotay tu tab un ki ahmiat ka ahsas hamain zaroor hota hai .... is liey koshish yahi kerni chahiey k jin logon k saath ham rah rahay hoon jin se ham related hoon un k saath acha waqt guzray ta k hamari yaadain khoobsoorat hoon aur hamara her ik pal sanwar jaey

Allah aap ko aap ki family ko aur aap ki cousin ki family ko sakoon aata farmaey Aamin

[*khushi*]

Re: Zindagi ki aik aeysi haqeeqat...

Walikumsalam

Inna Lilahi wa inna elahi rajeoun
May Allah rest her soul in peace ameen.

[Z.]

Re: Zindagi ki aik aeysi haqeeqat...

wa'laikum as-salaam,

nahiiN, aisa na socheN...we are all adluts here and to talk about facts of life such as death is wholly appropriate and an adult thing to do which is, no doubt, the most certain thing in life.

kullu nafsin zaayeqat-ul-maut!

yeh to aayegii aur aa kar rahegii, yake ba'd deegare...aaj uskii baarii hai to kal merii hogii...its a bitter fact that, like it or not, we have to swallow. Allah kii razaa ke aage sar-e-tasleem Kham kar denaa hii ai'n 'ibaadat hai.

sab se pahle to aapkii cousin kii is jahaan-e-faanii se naa-gahaanii ruKhsat kii jaaNkaah Khabar sun kar dil malool ho gayaa aur Allah se du'aa kartaa huN k Allah marHooma kii maGhfirat farmaaye aur unkii rooH ko jannat-ul-firdaus meN 'aalaa maqaam 'ataa farmaaye aur muta'alliqeen ko sabr-e-jameel...aameen :dua inna nillaahii wa inna ilaihii reje'oon.

mujhe aHsaas hai k bichaRne waaloN kaa Gham kis qadar gahraa hotaa hai. maiN ne apnii vaalidah ko baali 'umr meN khoyaa phir vaalid saaHib ko bhi awail-e-jawanii meN kho diyaa. unke jaane kaa Gham aaj bhi vaisa hii haraa hai jaise roz-e-awwal ko thaa par yeh soch kar taskeen-e-Khaatir kar letaa huN k vo [insha Allah] behtar jagah par hoNge. unkii baateN yaad aatii haiN to kaleja muNh ko aataa hai magar aaj bhii maiN unkii bataayii huii deenii aur dunyaavii baateN yaad kar ke sabaq letaa huN...maiN unkaa yeh qaul kabhii nahiiN bhool saktaa k:

"beTaa, moHabbat sirf yeh hii nahiiN k maaN baap, bhai bahen, azeez o 'aqaarib, hamsaayoN, buzurgoN kii Khidmat karo bal k asl moHabbat yeh hai k Allah kii bandagii saHeeH ma'noN meN kareN jaisa k Uskaa Haq hai to insha Allah ham sab jannat meN yakjaa hoNge jo daai'mii rihaaish hogi..vahaN milne kii bharpoor koshish karnaa aur yehii asl moHabbat hai!"

bas, jaanewaale kii yaad rah jaatii hai aur vo yaad jab aaye to maayoos honaa / udaas honaa ek fitrati 'amal hai magar ham Allah ke nek bande ban kar qayaamat ke roz surKh_rooii Haasil kar ke un se jaa milne kii sa'ii kareN to yeh hamaare Haq meN behtar hogaa :)

Aap bohot brave ho :rose

kabhi sochein tu lafzon ki be-zubaani ka khiyal aata hai
kabhi be-zubaan lafz Kattari ban jaatay hein
kabhi be-naam lamhat zindgee
aur kabhi rang bahri zindgi ...KHO jaati hai

yehi .....Jeewan hai

aap ki iss post ko parh kar kuch zukham tazay ho gay ..

apnouN ko Kho deynay ka dukh ...
Buhat Gehraa bul-keh Kaali Ghatta ki tarah ka siyah hota hai
Jo mosamouN k Badalnay se Badlta nahi ...

Bass ...Sab Muhabbat k khel hein ..
Aur issi muhabbat mein hamein janay walay ..
Buhat yaad aatay hein

Magar iss muhabbat mein hum oss muhabbat ko nahi bhoolein
Jo sab se azeem hai ..

Jo Haq hai ..
Jiss ko hee sirf baqa hai ..
Sab ko ossi HAq k pass Loatna hai

Dua hai k ..Hum sab Khatima HAQ ----Bar haq par ho ameen


Buhat kuch hai dil mein ...!magar ...

!!!!!!!!!!!

Allah talaah Marhooma k..sab darjay Buland karay ameen
Aur Peechay reh janay walouN ko onn k liyay Sadqa-e Jaariyaa bana-ay

ameen sum ameen

I'm sorry Gul :rose

Ina'lillah'e'wa'ina'elehe'raje'oon.

Death is a universal established truth, lets not talk about it ke yeh aaye gi he and blah blah.

Aap ki cousin sirf 30 years ki thi, to jawan mout pe bohat dukh hota he, i know. Mere mamu ke ghar 3 saal mein tabahi hui. Mera cousin shahid 27, waheed 30, waheed's wife 31, his sisters 20 and 23 respectively, his both parents. Yeh aik he ghar mein 3 saal ke ander loog gaye. Pura ghar khali ho gaya. Aur yeh sabi loog aik bharpoor life guzar rahay thay. aur shahid ke ilawa sub ki natural death hui, chand aik din beemari, treatment jari tha, aur phir yeh loog apni neend mein he chal basay.

Anyhow, waqee ajeeb lagta he, ke koi aap ka pyaara aap ki nazron ke samnay se chala jaye aur phir wo insaan sirf yaad ban ke reh jata he, we can't help it :)

May Allah bless them :rose

Inna-Lilaah hi wa inna illeaihe raajioon..
May Allah shower his countless blessings upon your cousin in the world hereafter and make u able to bear this time of grief and pain with abundance of patience..ameen...
yes no doubt mot to aik na aik din aa ker hi rehti ha...lakin jahan mot aati ha waha hi...mera apna experience ha ..waha hi Allah nay mutbaadil nizam terteeb dia hota ha ...yaani jab koi aapka piyaara aap say alag hota ha to ..automatically kuch time kay baad aapko asa sabar aa jata ha kay aap uss ki kami ko baghair roye poora hota daikhtay hain..phr mazeed yay kay ..aapko uss jasi shaksiat ki jhalkian routine life main dikhti rehti hain.aor aap ko din ba din itemenaan naseeb hota ha..Allah apnay bando say buhat pyaar kerta ha na..isi liay Allah buht ssari karsaziaan bhi saath hi main terteeb day dayta ha ...aor hummain pata bhi nahi chalta....:)

yeah! :rose

WASLAAM....EXTREMELY SORRY XENYA.....UNABLE TO SAY ANYTHING...

Wasalam:rose

انا للہ وانا الیہ راجعون

Inna Lilahi wa inna elahi rajeoun :rose

bahut afsos howa aap ki cousin ki death ka sun kar......... allah un ki magfrat farmai aur aap sub ko sabar ki taufeek......

Walikumsalam

Inna Lilahi wa inna elahi rajeoun
May Allah rest her soul in peace ameen.

:rose

Mar Jaey tu Barh Jati Hai Insan Ki Qeemat
Zinda Rahay tu Jeenay ki Saza Deti Hai Yeh Duniya

Inna Lillah e Waina Ileh he Raje'oon...Allah Taalah aap ki cousin ki Maghfrat kere ...

aap ne bilkul sahi kaha k jab insan pass nahien hota tu tab hamain pata chalta hai k wo hamari zindagey main kitni ahmiat rakhta tha

Mera Best and childhood friend jis ki wajha se aaj main jo kuch bhi hooon aik accident me us ki death ho gaee 2004 me .... us k baad aaj tak ham

saray friends us ko her qadam per her mushkil me yaad kerte hain k kaash aaj wo yahan per hota tu yooon na hota aur nahien tu koi mashwara hi deta is tarha ki bhot c batain hain jo ham kisi se share kerna chatay hain laikin ker nahien paatay aur jis se kerna chahtay hain wo hamaray pass jab nahien hota tu us ki kami mehsoos hoti hai .... aur baazzz logon ko ham apni zindagey main ignor bhi kerte rehtay hain yeh jo ooper me ne shair likha hai inho logon ki taraf ishara kerta hai laikin jab wo nahien hotay tu tab un ki ahmiat ka ahsas hamain zaroor hota hai .... is liey koshish yahi kerni chahiey k jin logon k saath ham rah rahay hoon jin se ham related hoon un k saath acha waqt guzray ta k hamari yaadain khoobsoorat hoon aur hamara her ik pal sanwar jaey

Allah aap ko aap ki family ko aur aap ki cousin ki family ko sakoon aata farmaey Aamin

May Allah bless your friend ... :rose

[Z.]

Re: Zindagi ki aik aeysi haqeeqat...

and shukran all :rose