Dosti kasi honi chaye ?

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Dosti kasi honi chaye ?

kion sunai nahi de raha k kia keh rahi hon

Mujay tum se yeh ummid nahi thi

[naveed iqbal]

Re: Dosti kasi honi chaye ?

jab milay ga to betaon ga

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Re: Dosti kasi honi chaye ?

takreban sab hi logoo nay kaha kay mayaar nahi deekhna chaye dosti main :).......to kio nahi deekhna chaye ? ham kisi choor dakoo ko apna doost bana laian ....?..kehtay hain na insaan apni suhbat say pehchna jata hai ...to insaan aisay wesay logoo ko apna doost rekhye ga to khud bhi wesay pehchana jaye ga na

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Re: Dosti kasi honi chaye ?

jab tak sorate-hal yehi rahi aap ki so called frndship bar qaarar rehay gi ...lakin jis point per thora sa bhi expect kia wahin break ho jai ga relationship
ham bhi insaaan hain.....give more expect less kay tehet ham less expect kar saktay hain....lakin aap ki bhi aik emotinal health hoti hai....jis ko barqarar rakhnay kay liye aap ko bhi kuch khaas beheviour chahiye hota hai......lihaza aisay sorat mein rishtay paidar nahin hotay.... aur hpir aisay loagoon per aap kitna aitbaar kar saktay hian jo sirf laina hi jantay hain.....

:thmbup:
main to aisy logoo ko doost hi nahi manti jo sirf apnay kaam kay tehat ham say rabta rekhtay hian ....mere aik friend hai jab usay kaam hoo us ki call ati hai or mujhay 100%yakeen hota hai isay koi kaam hoo ga ..or main humesha 100% hi sahi hoti houn is mamlay main :D: ...or jab Khudanakhsata us say koi kaam par jaye jo kay sirf aik 2 baar hi para tha ..us nay ab tak nahi kar kay dia ....(koi info chaye the mujhay aik cheez kay baray main ..jo usay pata the..)...to ji hazaar bahnanay ....
yeh dosti kasi hai pher mujhay aisi dosteoo ki samajh nahi ati ...problems to sab kay sath rehti hian..lekan jo used to hotay hian aisi cheezoo kay main aisy loogoo ko bardashat nahi kar sakti ....:)

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Re: Dosti kasi honi chaye ?

ASWK,
Dosti aisi honi chahiye jo dost ke bina kahe hi uski baat samajh le, har acche bure waqt main ek doosre ka saath denewale hone chahiye. Len den ke bina par dosti nahin tikti. Ek doosre ki madat ke liye hamesha tayyar rahe. Buri baat aur buri aadatein par tokna chahiye. Apne dost par yakin rakhnewala hona chahiye, na ki doosro ki baaton main aakar apne dost par aitbaar nahin karnewala...

:)

[shahid_naman]

Re: Dosti kasi honi chaye ?

assalamalikum
aksar loog is baat pay fakhar kartay hian kay flan flan banda mera acha or gehra doost hai ...to dosti kesi honi chaye ? aap dosti ko kesay judge kartay hian ?
:)
agar logoo ko judge kia jaye to pher koi bhi hamray doosti kay mayaar pay poora nahi utray ga :khi:

w/salam aanchal g

hmmmm.....pahlay no pa too jab hum kesi ko dost banata haan too ya nahi dakha jata ka wo kaya soochta ha balkay app samaj he nahi sakta aur hama aik pal he lagta ha kesi ka dost banata huya us waqat hum us ke khubi ya khami sa navakif hota haan aur pher baad ma hamay us ke khubi ya khami ka pata chalta ha pher hum ya decide karta haan ka wo app ka acha dost ha ka nahi....:)
aur rahi bat logoon ko judge karna ke too waka he app ka mayaar pa koi nahi uter sakta.....es ka sahi tareka ya ha ka app ya sochaan ka app kesi k leya kaya karsaktay haan ta k app ko koi apna ketna acha dost samajta ha aur mara khayal ma wo jetna app ka acha dost ban paya ga wasa koi nahi ho sakta aur agar app hud apna leya acha dost talash karann ga too kabi nahi mil saka ga es ka sab sa bahter tareka yahi ha ka app kesi k leya asa zahen rakhaan k app us ka leya acha karaan ga kabi bura nahi kar saktay too jab us a ya bat samaj ayya ge too wo app ka etna acha dost bana ga ka shayad wasa koi nahi ho g..:)

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Re: Dosti kasi honi chaye ?

w/salam aanchal g

hmmmm.....pahlay no pa too jab hum kesi ko dost banata haan too ya nahi dakha jata ka wo kaya soochta ha balkay app samaj he nahi sakta aur hama aik pal he lagta ha kesi ka dost banata huya us waqat hum us ke khubi ya khami sa navakif hota haan aur pher baad ma hamay us ke khubi ya khami ka pata chalta ha pher hum ya decide karta haan ka wo app ka acha dost ha ka nahi....:)
aur rahi bat logoon ko judge karna ke too waka he app ka mayaar pa koi nahi uter sakta.....es ka sahi tareka ya ha ka app ya sochaan ka app kesi k leya kaya karsaktay haan ta k app ko koi apna ketna acha dost samajta ha aur mara khayal ma wo jetna app ka acha dost ban paya ga wasa koi nahi ho sakta aur agar app hud apna leya acha dost talash karann ga too kabi nahi mil saka ga es ka sab sa bahter tareka yahi ha ka app kesi k leya asa zahen rakhaan k app us ka leya acha karaan ga kabi bura nahi kar saktay too jab us a ya bat samaj ayya ge too wo app ka etna acha dost bana ga ka shayad wasa koi nahi ho g..:)

oper wali batian to theek hain :thmbup:...lekan akhri wali baat pay baat karna chahaoun gee kay ....jesa kay haam kehtay hain na kay acha karoo to acha hoo ga ....to aisa aksar nahi hota naaaaa:D: yehi masla hai sara ..

[shahid_naman]

Re: Dosti kasi honi chaye ?

oper wali batian to theek hain :thmbup:...lekan akhri wali baat pay baat karna chahaoun gee kay ....jesa kay haam kehtay hain na kay acha karoo to acha hoo ga ....to aisa aksar nahi hota naaaaa:D: yehi masla hai sara ..

hmmmmm......bahoot achi bat ke app na......haan ya bat sahi ha ka khamasha acha karna sa be acha nahi hota lakin aik bat yaad rakhey ga ka Allah tala jo loge apna dil sa acha kam karta haan un k leya Allah wahaan he acha karta haan jahaan us k leya bahter ho aur agar us ka acha larna sa be kahi kush acha na ho too ya samaj laan ka app k leya wo bahter nahi ha....

mesal k toor pa agar kesi dost k leya app acha karta haan lakin us ke taraf sa koi acha reply nahi ata too ya us ke bawakofi ya baadkismati ha ka wo app ke samaj nahi paya ya wo es kabil he nahi ho ga ka app ke dosti pa saka...aur agar app ya soch ka acha karna he choor daan too kabi asa nahi ho sakta ka app koi acha dost pa sakaan kush dair k leya koi mil sakta ha lakin zayada dair k leya nahi.....:)

[shahid_naman]

Re: Dosti kasi honi chaye ?

kion sunai nahi de raha k kia keh rahi hon

ohoooo senorita ge sunai nahi balkay dekhi da raha ha :)

lagta ha app ko be koi parashani ha jo es tarha likh rahi haan:khi: