bachay ko bachi banana ..

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Assalamalikum
thread ka naam sun kay aap loog parishan hoo gay houn gay kay yeh kia keh rahi hai :khi:
to baat yeh hai kay kuch loog jin kay han beeta nahi hota to apni beeti ko hi beetay ki taraha bana kay reakhtay hain ..dressing main or bool chaal bhi wesay seekhai jati hai ..or kuch beetoo ko beeti na honay ki waja say beeti bana kay rekhtay hain ......is say kia bachoun ki psyshology pay asar nahi parta ? aisa kio kia jata hai ?

main aik larki ko jatni houn un ka koi chota bahi nahi tha ,,behan peda hovi to usay larkoo jesay bana kar rekhtay they wooh loog...dressing larkoo wali ..bool chaal bhi larkoo wali..woh yeh kehti hain "main khana khao ga" main vohan jaoun ga" ...ab bari hoo kay woh larki kia nikli hoo gee pata nahi :khi:

aik or family hain 2 bachay haian ..aik beeta aik beeti...beeti jo kuch pehnti hain beeta kehta hai mujhay yeh chaye ...us ki maa bhi us ki same frak, same ponny , or makeup bhi karti hai beetay ko ...nahi to woh sis ki cheen leeta hai .....
in sab ki omerian 5 saal tak ki hain ..baray hoo kay aisay bachaoo ki life main kia asar parta hai ? or baray yeh nahi suchtay kay woh ghalat kar rehay hain ?:)

[La'hasil]

Re: bachay ko bachi banana ..

Hmmm Buhat Ghalat Tareeqa hai Hamaray Appney Mammo Ki Beti Ao'n GA Jao'n Ga Lagaey Rakhti hai Dressing bhi Larko'n Jaise :s Abhi tu Choti hai Guzara Chal raha hai Par Main Sochti hooN Jab Yeh Bari ho gi Tab bhi Aise kare gi Tab :s

[aabi2cool]

Re: bachay ko bachi banana ..

Assalamalikum
thread ka naam sun kay aap loog parishan hoo gay houn gay kay yeh kia keh rahi hai :khi:
to baat yeh hai kay kuch loog jin kay han beeta nahi hota to apni beeti ko hi beetay ki taraha bana kay reakhtay hain ..dressing main or bool chaal bhi wesay seekhai jati hai ..or kuch beetoo ko beeti na honay ki waja say beeti bana kay rekhtay hain ......is say kia bachoun ki psyshology pay asar nahi parta ? aisa kio kia jata hai ?

main aik larki ko jatni houn un ka koi chota bahi nahi tha ,,behan peda hovi to usay larkoo jesay bana kar rekhtay they wooh loog...dressing larkoo wali ..bool chaal bhi larkoo wali..woh yeh kehti hain "main khana khao ga" main vohan jaoun ga" ...ab bari hoo kay woh larki kia nikli hoo gee pata nahi :khi:

aik or family hain 2 bachay haian ..aik beeta aik beeti...beeti jo kuch pehnti hain beeta kehta hai mujhay yeh chaye ...us ki maa bhi us ki same frak, same ponny , or makeup bhi karti hai beetay ko ...nahi to woh sis ki cheen leeta hai .....
in sab ki omerian 5 saal tak ki hain ..baray hoo kay aisay bachaoo ki life main kia asar parta hai ? or baray yeh nahi suchtay kay woh ghalat kar rehay hain ?:)

aysa karna shariat k bhi khilaf hy aur fitrat k bhi.

[AbgeenA]

Re: bachay ko bachi banana ..

ese bachon ki shakseyat par ache asraat nahi parte,bare ho kar wo bohat si abnormal harkaten karne lagte hen.or jesa aabi ne kaha islam me bhi esa karne se sakhti se manah kia gya he:mm:

[Yaaram]

Re: bachay ko bachi banana ..

Bohat ghalat hay yeh sab - jesa ke aabid bhai ne kaha ke yeh fitrat aur shariat ke khilaaf hay to main yahan kehna chahon ga ke humara deen deeen-e-fitrat hay Alhamdolillah - aur humain fitrat ke bnae hoe asooloN ke mutabiq apne aap ko dhalna chahye

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: bachay ko bachi banana ..

ghalat baat he, kasoorwaar parents hein

[sarfraz_qamar]

Re: bachay ko bachi banana ..

Assalamalikum
thread ka naam sun kay aap loog parishan hoo gay houn gay kay yeh kia keh rahi hai :khi:
to baat yeh hai kay kuch loog jin kay han beeta nahi hota to apni beeti ko hi beetay ki taraha bana kay reakhtay hain ..dressing main or bool chaal bhi wesay seekhai jati hai ..or kuch beetoo ko beeti na honay ki waja say beeti bana kay rekhtay hain ......is say kia bachoun ki psyshology pay asar nahi parta ? aisa kio kia jata hai ?

main aik larki ko jatni houn un ka koi chota bahi nahi tha ,,behan peda hovi to usay larkoo jesay bana kar rekhtay they wooh loog...dressing larkoo wali ..bool chaal bhi larkoo wali..woh yeh kehti hain "main khana khao ga" main vohan jaoun ga" ...ab bari hoo kay woh larki kia nikli hoo gee pata nahi :khi:

aik or family hain 2 bachay haian ..aik beeta aik beeti...beeti jo kuch pehnti hain beeta kehta hai mujhay yeh chaye ...us ki maa bhi us ki same frak, same ponny , or makeup bhi karti hai beetay ko ...nahi to woh sis ki cheen leeta hai .....
in sab ki omerian 5 saal tak ki hain ..baray hoo kay aisay bachaoo ki life main kia asar parta hai ? or baray yeh nahi suchtay kay woh ghalat kar rehay hain ?:)

aissaa karnaa ghallat too haiii butt joo parents yehh sab kuch karrtay hain wohh appnnay jazzbat kay hathhoon majboor hoo karr aissaa karrtay hainnnnnnn,,,,,,,

[ChaMpioN PaKiStaNi]

Re: bachay ko bachi banana ..

bohat galat hai...bus yehi kahon ga

[ummid]

Re: bachay ko bachi banana ..

Assalamalikum
thread ka naam sun kay aap loog parishan hoo gay houn gay kay yeh kia keh rahi hai :khi:
to baat yeh hai kay kuch loog jin kay han beeta nahi hota to apni beeti ko hi beetay ki taraha bana kay reakhtay hain ..dressing main or bool chaal bhi wesay seekhai jati hai ..or kuch beetoo ko beeti na honay ki waja say beeti bana kay rekhtay hain ......is say kia bachoun ki psyshology pay asar nahi parta ? aisa kio kia jata hai ?

main aik larki ko jatni houn un ka koi chota bahi nahi tha ,,behan peda hovi to usay larkoo jesay bana kar rekhtay they wooh loog...dressing larkoo wali ..bool chaal bhi larkoo wali..woh yeh kehti hain "main khana khao ga" main vohan jaoun ga" ...ab bari hoo kay woh larki kia nikli hoo gee pata nahi :khi:

aik or family hain 2 bachay haian ..aik beeta aik beeti...beeti jo kuch pehnti hain beeta kehta hai mujhay yeh chaye ...us ki maa bhi us ki same frak, same ponny , or makeup bhi karti hai beetay ko ...nahi to woh sis ki cheen leeta hai .....
in sab ki omerian 5 saal tak ki hain ..baray hoo kay aisay bachaoo ki life main kia asar parta hai ? or baray yeh nahi suchtay kay woh ghalat kar rehay hain ?:)

waalaikumasalam...

well yeh sahi nahi... parents apni wishes ke liye baccho ki life ruined kar dete hain akser.. aisa is xpectations ki waja se hota hai... aik satisfaction chahiye hota hai parents ko... hum jis socisty mein rehte hain woh male dominate hai... so jo maa baap apni beti ko beta bana ker bara karte hain woh "sahara" bane aisa soch kar karte hain.... aur rahi baat maa baap ki bete ko beti bannna tu yeh xtreme cases mein hi hota hai... aap ne jo case bataya hai us mein maa baap ka qasoor yeh hai ke woh bete ki beja zid puri kar rahe hai.... akser bache mein gense ka factor bhi a jata hai... per yeh controlable hai to some xtend... is ke maa baba ko mehnat karni hogi... ta ke woh apne bacho ko aik behtreen life de sake... bus aise parents ko thori sa sumjhane ki zaroorat hoti hai.. aur maa baba bhi tu Insaan hi hote hain na... ghaltiyaan kar sakte hain... so inhe sumjhaya ja sakta hai... :rose

[Z.]

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Re: bachay ko bachi banana ..

zimdariyan or baat hai lekan chotay bachhoo ki Language tak badal deena ..or dressing woh to sahi nahi na :)

[Life is Alone]

Re: bachay ko bachi banana ..

Assalamalikum
thread ka naam sun kay aap loog parishan hoo gay houn gay kay yeh kia keh rahi hai :khi:
to baat yeh hai kay kuch loog jin kay han beeta nahi hota to apni beeti ko hi beetay ki taraha bana kay reakhtay hain ..dressing main or bool chaal bhi wesay seekhai jati hai ..or kuch beetoo ko beeti na honay ki waja say beeti bana kay rekhtay hain ......is say kia bachoun ki psyshology pay asar nahi parta ? aisa kio kia jata hai ?

main aik larki ko jatni houn un ka koi chota bahi nahi tha ,,behan peda hovi to usay larkoo jesay bana kar rekhtay they wooh loog...dressing larkoo wali ..bool chaal bhi larkoo wali..woh yeh kehti hain "main khana khao ga" main vohan jaoun ga" ...ab bari hoo kay woh larki kia nikli hoo gee pata nahi :khi:

aik or family hain 2 bachay haian ..aik beeta aik beeti...beeti jo kuch pehnti hain beeta kehta hai mujhay yeh chaye ...us ki maa bhi us ki same frak, same ponny , or makeup bhi karti hai beetay ko ...nahi to woh sis ki cheen leeta hai .....
in sab ki omerian 5 saal tak ki hain ..baray hoo kay aisay bachaoo ki life main kia asar parta hai ? or baray yeh nahi suchtay kay woh ghalat kar rehay hain ?:)

walaikum salamm

bohat hi ziydaa ghult baat hai aisa kernaa...aise parents ko thori si sumjhdari se kaam lena chaiyee....orr asii ajeeb herkatain nahi kerni chaiye..

[wajid hanif]

Re: bachay ko bachi banana ..

Assalamalikum
thread ka naam sun kay aap loog parishan hoo gay houn gay kay yeh kia keh rahi hai :khi:
to baat yeh hai kay kuch loog jin kay han beeta nahi hota to apni beeti ko hi beetay ki taraha bana kay reakhtay hain ..dressing main or bool chaal bhi wesay seekhai jati hai ..or kuch beetoo ko beeti na honay ki waja say beeti bana kay rekhtay hain ......is say kia bachoun ki psyshology pay asar nahi parta ? aisa kio kia jata hai ?

main aik larki ko jatni houn un ka koi chota bahi nahi tha ,,behan peda hovi to usay larkoo jesay bana kar rekhtay they wooh loog...dressing larkoo wali ..bool chaal bhi larkoo wali..woh yeh kehti hain "main khana khao ga" main vohan jaoun ga" ...ab bari hoo kay woh larki kia nikli hoo gee pata nahi :khi:

aik or family hain 2 bachay haian ..aik beeta aik beeti...beeti jo kuch pehnti hain beeta kehta hai mujhay yeh chaye ...us ki maa bhi us ki same frak, same ponny , or makeup bhi karti hai beetay ko ...nahi to woh sis ki cheen leeta hai .....
in sab ki omerian 5 saal tak ki hain ..baray hoo kay aisay bachaoo ki life main kia asar parta hai ? or baray yeh nahi suchtay kay woh ghalat kar rehay hain ?:)

ajeeb sa to naam deya hai is ko........:tauba koi haal nahi aap ka b ..be haal say looog
lol

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Re: bachay ko bachi banana ..

ajeeb sa to naam deya hai is ko........:tauba koi haal nahi aap ka b ..be haal say looog
lol

to kia naam hona chaye tha ?:khi:

[SANA NAZ]

Re: bachay ko bachi banana ..

yea abi ne bilkul sahi farmaya aisa kArna shariyat aur fitrat dono k khilaf hai...

well mene to apne se bhi bari age ki aik larki ko dekha :D jo larkon ki gathering me bethti thi :D dressing bhi jeans n shirt hoti thi uski n naam uska shafaq tha jo dono me chal jata hai :D me jab choti thi to me khud nhi pehchaan pati thi k ye larka hai yan larki :D then baron ne bataya k larki hai lol :D but herat hoti hai log apne huliya hi change karletai hain Hame jo aur jesa Allah ne banaya hai hame uspar Shukar ada karna chaiye :)