baat kay pakkey ....?

[.]

Assalamalikum
aaj ham logoo ki jis qisem kay baray main baat karain gay woh hotay hian apni baat kay pakkye :lpop: yani kisi say keh dia kay yeh kaam ham kar dain gay to har haal main woh kaam kartay hian chaye un ka apna nuqsaan hi kio na hoo jaye .....kuch loog aisay bhi hian kay kisi say koi wada kia to sari omar usi waday ko nibhanay main guzaar daytay hian ....

is logoun kay baray main aap logoo ka kia nazreya hai kay yeh loog waqai main practical kisem kay loog hotay hian ya bewakoof ki kisi keye leye apni life bhi kharab kar daytay hian ?

[Mujahid Khan]

Re: baat kay pakkye ....?

iss topic per hum kal baath karengen:thmbup:

[.]

Re: baat kay pakkye ....?

iss topic per hum kal baath karengen:thmbup:

ji sure :rose

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: baat kay pakkey ....?

Assalamalikum
aaj ham logoo ki jis qisem kay baray main baat karain gay woh hotay hian apni baat kay pakkye :lpop: yani kisi say keh dia kay yeh kaam ham kar dain gay to har haal main woh kaam kartay hian chaye un ka apna nuqsaan hi kio na hoo jaye .....kuch loog aisay bhi hian kay kisi say koi wada kia to sari omar usi waday ko nibhanay main guzaar daytay hian ....

is logoun kay baray main aap logoo ka kia nazreya hai kay yeh loog waqai main practical kisem kay loog hotay hian ya bewakoof ki kisi keye leye apni life bhi kharab kar daytay hian ?

baat ka pakka hona achi baat he...lekin kabi kabi negotiation ker leni chahiye...like...ager do khandan larkay larki ki engagement ker dete hein...aur kuch saalon baad larka ya larki kisi bhi wajah ke bina per shadi nahi kerna chahtay aur rishta toorna chahtay hein, to aisay moaamlay mein negotiation ho sakti he...aur yeh moaamlaat reayat talab hotay hein...jo loog ana parasti ki had tak chalay jatay hein, aur bagair kisi ka nafa nuksan soochay her surat apni baat manwana chahtay hein, mein un loogon ki favour mein nahi hoon.

Is liye mein kahon ga ke baat ko bohat sooch samaj ke karo...aur kooshish karo ke baat pe kaim raho...lekin ager is se kisi ki zinadagi ko nuksaan ho to aap aisi surat mein withdraw kerne mein koi muzaika nahi.

[sccorpion81]

Re: baat kay pakkey ....?

baat ka pakka hona achi baat he...lekin kabi kabi negotiation ker leni chahiye...like...ager do khandan larkay larki ki engagement ker dete hein...aur kuch saalon baad larka ya larki kisi bhi wajah ke bina per shadi nahi kerna chahtay aur rishta toorna chahtay hein, to aisay moaamlay mein negotiation ho sakti he...aur yeh moaamlaat reayat talab hotay hein...jo loog ana parasti ki had tak chalay jatay hein, aur bagair kisi ka nafa nuksan soochay her surat apni baat manwana chahtay hein, mein un loogon ki favour mein nahi hoon.

Is liye mein kahon ga ke baat ko bohat sooch samaj ke karo...aur kooshish karo ke baat pe kaim raho...lekin ager is se kisi ki zinadagi ko nuksaan ho to aap aisi surat mein withdraw kerne mein koi muzaika nahi.

:thmbup:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: baat kay pakkey ....?

:blush:

[ummid]

Re: baat kay pakkey ....?

baat ka pakka hona achi baat he...lekin kabi kabi negotiation ker leni chahiye...like...ager do khandan larkay larki ki engagement ker dete hein...aur kuch saalon baad larka ya larki kisi bhi wajah ke bina per shadi nahi kerna chahtay aur rishta toorna chahtay hein, to aisay moaamlay mein negotiation ho sakti he...aur yeh moaamlaat reayat talab hotay hein...jo loog ana parasti ki had tak chalay jatay hein, aur bagair kisi ka nafa nuksan soochay her surat apni baat manwana chahtay hein, mein un loogon ki favour mein nahi hoon.

Is liye mein kahon ga ke baat ko bohat sooch samaj ke karo...aur kooshish karo ke baat pe kaim raho...lekin ager is se kisi ki zinadagi ko nuksaan ho to aap aisi surat mein withdraw kerne mein koi muzaika nahi.

farz kijye ke ager aap ke saath aisa koi maslah ho tu kya aap withdra kar leinge khud ko????

[Z.]

Re: baat kay pakkey ....?

meyrey liye to ye bohot touchy topic hai iss liye behtar hai key mey khamosh rahun :)

[Mujahid Khan]

Re: baat kay pakkey ....?

Assalamalikum
aaj ham logoo ki jis qisem kay baray main baat karain gay woh hotay hian apni baat kay pakkye :lpop: yani kisi say keh dia kay yeh kaam ham kar dain gay to har haal main woh kaam kartay hian chaye un ka apna nuqsaan hi kio na hoo jaye .....kuch loog aisay bhi hian kay kisi say koi wada kia to sari omar usi waday ko nibhanay main guzaar daytay hian ....

is logoun kay baray main aap logoo ka kia nazreya hai kay yeh loog waqai main practical kisem kay loog hotay hian ya bewakoof ki kisi keye leye apni life bhi kharab kar daytay hian ?

baath ka pakka hona aik achcheh musalmaan ki nishaani hai,baath ka pakka hona mutlab ehed ka pakka hona hai,aur hadees hai k jiss ka ehed nahi woh hum may sey nahi.
hum nikah kartey hain tho aik ehed kartey hain,uss may phhir koi chuun chaan agar magar nahi,kiukeh nikah mashroot nahi ho sakti,hum islaam qabool kartey hain tho aik ehed kartey hain uss may phhir koi uzar nahi hoti aur agar uzar aagai tho woh musalmaan nahi.
hadeeson sey riwaayat hai k lain dain aur kaarobaar may baath ka pakka hona(ehed) bohoth zaroori hai.
issliye agar aap ko apney aap per yaqeen nahi tho aik koshish karney ka waada karna chaahiye pakki baath nahi karni chaahiye.

[ummid]

Re: baat kay pakkey ....?

meyrey liye to ye bohot touchy topic hai iss liye behtar hai key mey khamosh rahun :)

same here...:)

[neha_ahmad]

Re: baat kay pakkey ....?

aysay bhi log hotay hain main khud aysi hon koi bhi kam ager koi kah day to chahay is main mayra nuqsan hi kyuon na ho ker dayti hon.kyuonkay mayra mana hay koi bhi khoshi aap kay kisi apnay ki khoshi say bher ker nahi hoti.

[Mujahid Khan]

Re: baat kay pakkey ....?

aysay bhi log hotay hain main khud aysi hon koi bhi kam ager koi kah day to chahay is main mayra nuqsan hi kyuon na ho ker dayti hon.kyuonkay mayra mana hay koi bhi khoshi aap kay kisi apnay ki khoshi say bher ker nahi hoti.

good:thmbup:

[lucky]

Re: baat kay pakkey ....?

baat k pakky hona achi baat hai

[Soulmate]

Re: baat kay pakkey ....?

Meray khayal mein tu achi baat hai

[AbgeenA]

Re: baat kay pakkey ....?

baat ka paka hona or apne erady par qaim rehna aik achi baat hey