My lil Confusion....................................

[fari]

Re: My lil Confusion....................................

baghair aetbar kai kaisa apna hota hia shweeto ? :cc:

waqt kay sath atebar ata ha atebar ata ha tu apna pan ata ha aur tab hi hurt hotay ho hurt hotay ho :donno: :tauba bas baat khatam khana hazam

[Shaheen]

Re: My lil Confusion....................................

waqt kay sath atebar ata ha atebar ata ha tu apna pan ata ha aur tab hi hurt hotay ho hurt hotay ho :donno: :tauba bas baat khatam khana hazam

agar aap ko woh is sara process sai pehla hurt kar dai tu phir dost tu woh hota tab b hai kya tab os ka haq nahi hota ...
tabhi tu dosti badnam hoti hai na jub dost banata hai ya tu aap os per aetbar nahi karta ya phir woh aetbar kai layak nahi hota or phir hurt hojata hai phir kehta hai dosti useless ..... :eye:

[*Hala*]

Re: My lil Confusion....................................

app ka sacha dost app ka apna hota aor ek sache dost ki ahmiyaat ye hai ke uss ko kabhi maat azmaoo .......kyun ke agar app apne dost ke bare mien ye soocho ke itbaar karoon ya na karoon trust karoon ya na karoon tu iss karoon na karoon mien itna waqat lag jaye ga ke app apne aache dost ko samaj hi nahi paoo ge .......agar app ka dil ye kehta hai ke vo app ka sub se aacha dost ahi tu vo app ka sub se aacha dost hai ....aor aache dostoon mien trust aitbaar honesty ....ye sub kuch meaningless hote hain .....

haa jinab... hum ni kab kaha ka hum apni sab sy achi dost ko azmati hai....... jaha azmish hoo dosti mein... dosti ka matlab nahi raha........or ALLAH PAK ki karam sy mein ni jis dost pe itibar karti hoo...ALLAH ki karam sy shak or azmaysh ka ....gunjayesh pedaa nahi hoti.... :alhamd:

my question was ... Dosti mein itibar hota hai
ya per ... itibar sy dosti hojata hai... :)

[*Hala*]

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:tauba yar tu phir kyu tension lai rahi hai ..jub khudi manti hai :zuban:

ary broo.... mein dosti ka relation nahi poch rahi hoo.....:zuban:

[Muhammad Khalil]

Re: My lil Confusion....................................

Itibar dosti k without bee hujata hay aur aisa buhat hadd tak mumkin hay..
ager muj sy personaly pocho to main yehi kahonga k pehly ehtibar huta hay pher dosti........ager nahi yakeen to hala wo din yaad karian jab aap kee yahoo per meri pehly chat hui thee ap ny ID apna dy dia tha aur baad main dosti hui thee:mm:

[snobbish]

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haa jinab... hum ni kab kaha ka hum apni sab sy achi dost ko azmati hai....... jaha azmish hoo dosti mein... dosti ka matlab nahi raha........or ALLAH PAK ki karam sy mein ni jis dost pe itibar karti hoo...ALLAH ki karam sy shak or azmaysh ka ....gunjayesh pedaa nahi hoti.... :alhamd:

my question was ... Dosti mein itibar hota hai
ya per ... itibar sy dosti hojata hai... :)

AOR mien ne kha ke sachi dosti itibar se nahi hota

kyun ke jub itibaar ka question samne hota tu hai tu 2 question aor samne aah jate hain ke muje iss se dosti karni chaye ke nahi ......tu jub esi baat aah jae tu hum ek aache dost ka intkhaab nahi kar sakte ........

dosti ka rishta sirf dil se hota hai aor dil se hi khatam thats it

[snobbish]

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kehte hain ke agar app ye jannana chate ho ke app ka sub se aacha dost koun hai tu uss ko mushkil waqat mien yaad kar ke deakho ....

yahaan par humara dost koi b nahi lakien yahaan hum sub ko jante hain

shaaiyed hum in par itabar b na kar sakien kyun ye hum sub ke liye mushkil hai kyun ke inn mien se humara koi aacha dost nahi ......(bhuat ke ho b sakte hain aache dost)

kyun har ek ko janane se koi aacha dost nahi ban sakta hai .......

[fari]

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agar aap ko woh is sara process sai pehla hurt kar dai tu phir dost tu woh hota tab b hai kya tab os ka haq nahi hota ...
tabhi tu dosti badnam hoti hai na jub dost banata hai ya tu aap os per aetbar nahi karta ya phir woh aetbar kai layak nahi hota or phir hurt hojata hai phir kehta hai dosti useless ..... :eye:

ap jab hurt hotay ho:pagal: tu ap ka dost ap ko manata ha:tasali: aur ap man jatay ho:khi: agar woh nhi manata :na: aur ap bhi naa manay tu ap ki dosti useless ha:zuban: ....per agar baat sulajh jay aur thori bohat understandi ho tu dosti durable ho jati ha..ahista ahista atebar ata ha:lpop:

[aquari]

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Kisi pr aetibar hota haii jabhi us sey dosti bhi hoti haii..main personaly formal baat cheet ko dosti nahi kehti baat tu hum bauht sarey logo sey krtey hain office main,school colleges main etc etc pr main kabhi un logo ko apney dosto ki list main shamil nahi krti kunk dost woh hota haii jis sey app hr baat apni share krsakoo or aisa app tub hi krsaktey hoo jub ap ko us pr aitebar hai ...yeh aitebar qayim hota haii phir hi dosti hojati haii :)

[Shaheen]

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ap jab hurt hotay ho:pagal: tu ap ka dost ap ko manata ha:tasali: aur ap man jatay ho:khi: agar woh nhi manata :na: aur ap bhi naa manay tu ap ki dosti useless ha:zuban: ....per agar baat sulajh jay aur thori bohat understandi ho tu dosti durable ho jati ha..ahista ahista atebar ata ha:lpop:

shweeeto boht shweet hoo ..Allah tumhain khush rakhain.......ab mai or kya samjhai tumhia ...................mai nai tu apna personal experience and view bataya ab tum laro tu mat :zuban:

[snobbish]

Re: My lil Confusion....................................

muje yahaan par koi grantee de sakta hai ke jis se ap dosti karne ja rae ho vo ek aacha dost sabit ho ga ......app kis tarha dosti karne se pehle kisi par itbaar kar sakte ho ........


lakien jub vo app ka vo aacha dost ban jata hai tu app kehte ho ke muje us par itbaar hai .....matlab app ne apne aache dost ke samne itbaar ko khatam kyun ke app ke samne app ka dost important hai itabar nahi

[*Hala*]

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Itibar dosti k without bee hujata hay aur aisa buhat hadd tak mumkin hay..
ager muj sy personaly pocho to main yehi kahonga k pehly ehtibar huta hay pher dosti........ager nahi yakeen to hala wo din yaad karian jab aap kee yahoo per meri pehly chat hui thee ap ny ID apna dy dia tha aur baad main dosti hui thee:mm:

itibar dosti ki benaa...wo to per short time ki liyee hota hai

yaad kia :D:... dosti ko ajj tak nebani ki liyee itibar zayada develop howa.... m i right...:mm:

[snobbish]

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itibar dosti ki benaa...wo to per short time ki liyee hota hai

yaad kia :D:... dosti ko ajj tak nebani ki liyee itibar zayada develop howa.... m i right...:mm:

piyar b tu anda hota ...iss bare mien kuch bolo....kiya dosti b piyaar nahi

[Soulmate]

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I think ke dosti per aitbaar hota hai

[fari]

Re: My lil Confusion....................................

shweeeto boht shweet hoo ..Allah tumhain khush rakhain.......ab mai or kya samjhai tumhia ...................mai nai tu apna personal experience and view bataya ab tum laro tu mat :zuban:

Mainay kab larai ki mai tu apna point ka view :kr: :kr: :kr: bata rhai ho:D ap dar kiun:tasali: rahy hain