Aik Sawal

[Masood]

Asslamo allaikum

Main fitri tor per aik aisa bandah hoon keh jiskey darwazey per agar koi mangney aaey to ussey kabhi bhi khali haath lutana munasib nahin samajhta...

Hamarey paros mein aik arabi family rehti hai. Us aurat key 4-5 bachey hain. Khud woh fashion ki chalti phirti misaal hai - shayid hi koi fashion ho jo woh na karti ho... Magar kam-o-besh har roz apney bachon ko bhej dey gi ya khud chali aaey gi keh mujhey "mujhey aik cup doodh dey saktey hain? - aik cup cheeni (sugar) dey saktey hain? - do tablets sar'dard ki dey saktey hain? aik cup aata dey saktey hain? - aur to aur aik cup shampoo tak mangney aa jati hai...

Theek hai aap key istidaad mein hai to aap ko doosron ko dena chahiye aur isi per main aaj tak chal raha hoon - magar there must be a limit! Ab yeh aurat jo fashion mein sab sey barh charh ker hai - kya yeh chhoti chhoti cheezein afford nahin kar sakti? Kya aisey logon ki help karni chahiye????????

I don't think so...

[ummid]

Re: Aik Sawal

Abu dawood(WR) ki aik hadith ka mafhoom hai..."ager tere dar per koi ghode per bhi baith ker aaye aur tujh se sawal kare tu usey bhi khali haath mat loata..."
Aap fe-sabillilah de diya karein..baaqi Allah sub ko behtareen hidayat dene wala hai...........hum bhi aisa hi karte hain.ab aage aap ki marzi.....:)

['SamRazi']

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Abu dawood(WR) ki aik hadith ka mafhoom hai..."ager tere dar per koi ghode per bhi baith ker aaye aur tujh se sawal kare tu usey bhi khali haath mat loata..."
Aap fe-sabillilah de diya karein..baaqi Allah sub ko behtareen hidayat dene wala hai...........hum bhi aisa hi karte hain.ab aage aap ki marzi.....:)

Agreed good reply dear :)

[ummid]

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Agreed good reply dear :)

thank you jaani...........and love you toooooooo.......:)

[Masood]

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Abu dawood(WR) ki aik hadith ka mafhoom hai..."ager tere dar per koi ghode per bhi baith ker aaye aur tujh se sawal kare tu usey bhi khali haath mat loata..."
Aap fe-sabillilah de diya karein..baaqi Allah sub ko behtareen hidayat dene wala hai...........hum bhi aisa hi karte hain.ab aage aap ki marzi.....:)

Ummid masla bhi to yehi hai na keh ham log inkaar bhi nahin kar saktey - keh hamara eeman hai keh dar per aaey sawali ko khali hath mat lotao - lekin is situation mein yeh arabi aurat bhi to hamarey hi eeman sey ta'aluq rakhti hai - ussey fashion sey thora sa hat kar apney ghar ko bhi dekhna chahiye keh nahin?

aur abhi tak alhamdolilah woh din nahin aaya jab kisi ko khali haath lotaya ho :)

[ummid]

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Ummid masla bhi to yehi hai na keh ham log inkaar bhi nahin kar saktey - keh hamara eeman hai keh dar per aaey sawali ko khali hath mat lotao - lekin is situation mein yeh arabi aurat bhi to hamarey hi eeman sey ta'aluq rakhti hai - ussey fashion sey thora sa hat kar apney ghar ko bhi dekhna chahiye keh nahin?

aur abhi tak alhamdolilah woh din nahin aaya jab kisi ko khali haath lotaya ho :)

:masha :rose
Inkaar karna bhi nahi chaiye bhai.......aap paise mat dijye...khana khila dijye ya kapde wagarah de dijye......hum jub college jaate the us waqt apne pass biscuit ke packets rakha karte the ke koi mange tu paise ki bajaye yeh de dein.is se kum az kum hum is khoof se tu azad ho jaate hain ke kahein woh humare diye hoye paison ka galaht istemal tu nahi karte.........:)

[aabi2cool]

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mery khiyal main aap ko us ki madad karty rehna chaiye aur kisi gair mehsoos tareeky se usy ye ahsaas dila dijiye k ye koi achi aadat naheen hy....

[shahbaznk]

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Masood bhaeee, Allah usss ko hadayat dei, aiseey hii log hotay hain jo kisi saheee haqdaar ka haq lai laity hain. Aaap iss silsalay ko continue rakhain. Allah karim meherbani famain gay.... Inshallah

[Masood]

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InshaAllah :rose

[Shaim]

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Walikum Assalam!

Mere khiyaal mai sirf unko dena chahiye jo mustaahiqq hoon
lakin humin maloom nahi ho pata k mustaahiq kon hain.....per jesa k apne bataya....to is se to saaf zahiir hai k wo afford ker sakti hai per usko aadat hai haath pheelaaney ki....
asal mai aise log mustehqeen ka haqq maar dete hain
ALLAH UNHE HIDAYAT DE......
or ap unse discuss q nahi ker letey????
unko samjhane ya poochne se shaid reality samne ai.......or ho sakta hai k wo baat ko samajh jain or apki waja se un mai ik accha change ai:)

[Wafa]

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Mere khayal se sirf Mustahiq logo ki madad karne chaheye.........

Hamare saath bhi kuch aisa hi hoa hai :tauba ..kuch month pehle hamare ghar ke baher ik burhe aadmi aaye aur kehne lage ke mere beti ki shadi hai kuch madad kare, jab mom ne paise dea to wo us ne rakh lea aur kehne laga ke 2 dress bhi de de pher ham ne us ko aik dress bhi dia pher wo chala gaya.........
kuch dino ke baad pher se aa gaya paise aur dress mangne, to mom ne kuch paise de kar jaane ko keh dia..........pher har do din ke baad aa jata mangne ke lea to mere bhai usse jaane ko keh deta tha....pher us ne aana band kar dia.....

[Masood]

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Walikum Assalam!

Mere khiyaal mai sirf unko dena chahiye jo mustaahiqq hoon
lakin humin maloom nahi ho pata k mustaahiq kon hain.....per jesa k apne bataya....to is se to saaf zahiir hai k wo afford ker sakti hai per usko aadat hai haath pheelaaney ki....
asal mai aise log mustehqeen ka haqq maar dete hain
ALLAH UNHE HIDAYAT DE......
or ap unse discuss q nahi ker letey????
unko samjhane ya poochne se shaid reality samne ai.......or ho sakta hai k wo baat ko samajh jain or apki waja se un mai ik accha change ai:)

Sis baat yeh hai keh mustahiq ka patah chal jata hai - is aurat key rehney sehney sey aur jab bhi ghar sey nikalti hai fashion mein ladhi hui hoti hai - aur is tarha ki chhoti chhoti cheezein, andey, sugar ka aik cup, doodh ka aik cup, shampoo ka aik cup - yeh to har ghar mein honi chahiye - chalein aik din theek hai do din theek magar har doosrey roz, har haftey aisi chezein mangna khud sharmindgi ki baat honi chahiye.... mera khiyal hai keh ham aisey logon ka munh khud khol detey hain....

[Masood]

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un Khaatoon se poochh liyaa kareN k unko agle 30 dinoN meN kin kin ashyaa~ kii zaroorat pesh aayegii

:lol mujhey bhi kuchh aisa hi lagta hai :lol

ab aap kahiiye aap kia kareNge us ke saath

main ney kya karna hai bhai - jab tak Allah ney mujhe diya hai main aagey deta rahoon ga ....

[Masood]

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Mere khayal se sirf Mustahiq logo ki madad karne chaheye.........

theek kaha

[Aania]

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jab Allah ki raah main diya muslim ko diya to sawal kesa main ne to suna hai .. jab aap sadqa kherat kero .. to dahney haath ne kia diya kis ko diya bayen haath ko khabar bhi na ho .. ha ne Allah ko apna fa'l dikhana hai .. apni neki ki jaza saza Allah ne deni hai .. aap ka jee chahta hai to do nahen chahta to na do .. lekin kisi ke kuch bhi kerney honey pe ungli uthana buri baat hai .. aur phir aie'b poshi to sawab hai .. kisi ka pehnawa kia hai kia nahen kisi ka fashion , rehun sehun .. se hamen kia gharz.. ham to Allah ki raah main den ge .. Allah ke liye detey hein :)