Aurat pay tuhmat lagana !!!!

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Assalamalikum
hamaray mousharey main buhat si booriyan pheeli hovi hain or kuch teezi say pheelti ja rahi hai ....aaj jis topic pay baat kar rahi houn vo bhi un main say hai jo aak kal buhat teezi say pheelti ja rahi hai .....
woh yeh hai kay "Aurat pay tuhmat lagana" kisi kay han jab koi aulad hoti hai to kuch loog hain jo yeh kehtay hain yeh aulad mere nahi hai .!!!biwi pay ghalat ilzaam laga daytay hain...

to ab sawal yeh hai kay aisay mardoo ka kia hona chaye jo aisa kartay hain ?
moushraye main aisi aurat ki kia izat reh jati hai ?
us bachay ko mousharey main kis nazar say deekhian gay loog?
islamic point of view say is maslaye ka kia hal hona chaye ?
is taraha kay kai sawlaat hain ...

aap loog is baray main apni raye daian ...:rose

[ummid]

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it's a true reality.....
khair is ka jawab aap ko "sur-e-noor" tarjume ke saath padhne per zaror mil jaye ga....
agar aap chahe tu haum yahan post bhi kar sakte hain...
but try to read it by yourself..
then definitly you will get better and more clear answer than any other...
kuhsh rahiye.:phool:

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it's a true reality.....
khair is ka jawab aap ko "sur-e-noor" tarjume ke saath padhne per zaror mil jaye ga....
agar aap chahe tu haum yahan post bhi kar sakte hain...
but try to read it by yourself..
then definitly you will get better and more clear answer than any other...
kuhsh rahiye.:phool:

ji sura Noor main hai yeh .....or hazrat Aisha(R.A) ka waqeya bhi beyaan kia gia hai isi topic pay ....(jitna mujhay pata hai woh main yaha post karoun gee)
aap kay paas bhi is ki tafseer hai to yaha zaror share kejey ga ....

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aurat par tohmat lagaanaa bahot baRaa gunaah hai...uskoo saabit karne ke liye islaamii shari'a meN chashm_deed gawaahaan kaa honaa laaznii hai. isii liye itnaa saKht requirements haiN k kisii ko khuli chhooT na mile tohmat lagaa kar talaaq Haasil karne kaa...bahaanaa banaa kar.

vaise aulaad kii valdiyat ka pataa lagaane ke liye sciemce kaa bhii iste'maal kiyaa jaa saktaa hai.

DNA Test ke zarii'ye.

DNA bhi hai aik hal ...jo gaoun kay loog hain ya chootay elakay kay loog hain unhay kia ilm in cheezoun ka .......ab DNA sahi sabit honay kay bad us bachay or aurat ko woh maqam mill jaye ga jo us ka hona chaye ?

sawal yeh bhi hai na kay mard aisa kin kin wajoohat ki bina pay kartay hain???

[Masood]

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Insan ka apna eeman hota hai. Jin logon ka apna eeman danwa'dhol ho woh to kisi aik baat per bhi shak kar saktey hain! Insan woh bewafa janwar hai jo apney Khuda-e-haqeeqi key wajood sey bhi munkar ho jata hai to apni aulad sey munkar hona to koi mushkil baat nahin hoti. Jab koi apni aulad sey inkaar karey to woh zillat key bohat badey paimaney per hota hai. Aisey logon ka kuchh nahin kiya jaa sakta!

[RulzZ]

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Assalamalikum
hamaray mousharey main buhat si booriyan pheeli hovi hain or kuch teezi say pheelti ja rahi hai ....aaj jis topic pay baat kar rahi houn vo bhi un main say hai jo aak kal buhat teezi say pheelti ja rahi hai .....
woh yeh hai kay "Aurat pay tuhmat lagana" kisi kay han jab koi aulad hoti hai to kuch loog hain jo yeh kehtay hain yeh aulad mere nahi hai .!!!biwi pay ghalat ilzaam laga daytay hain...

to ab sawal yeh hai kay aisay mardoo ka kia hona chaye jo aisa kartay hain ?
moushraye main aisi aurat ki kia izat reh jati hai ?
us bachay ko mousharey main kis nazar say deekhian gay loog?
islamic point of view say is maslaye ka kia hal hona chaye ?
is taraha kay kai sawlaat hain ...

aap loog is baray main apni raye daian ...:rose

tuhmat waysay he aik buri cheez hai chahay kisi bhi masoom insaan par lagai jaiy... aur aurat kay ma'amlay main to insaan ko darna chaheay kion kay aishi tohat zindagi tabah kardayti hai..
aur agar koi shaks apni bivi par aisi tohmat lagaiy to yeh yaqinan nafsiyati pehlo hai.. jo naqabil-e-ilaj hai. aur yaqinan achi ma'ain achi qoom paida kartee hain. main to yeh samajhta hoon kay insan ko "insan" bananay main aurat ka he haath hota hai. aur yeh aik bari zimay dari hai...
aap ka aik sawal thora sa ghalat hai kay islamic point of view say is maslay ka kia hal hona chaheay??? shayad aap yeh pochna chahti hain kay islamic point of view say is mas'alay ka kia hal hai... well aisay mas'alay ka hal to mujhay nahee maloom, laikin yaqeeni tor par quran aur hadees main tohmat say bachnay ki taleem di gai hai, aur baygunah par tohmat lagana...... baray he "dil waloon" ka kaam hai yeh :fuming:. Allah baroz-e-Mehshar sirf haqoq-ullah par baat nahee karay ga balkay woh Haqoq-ul-ibad ka bhi pochay ga.. aur Allah nay Haqoq-ul-Ibad ka ta'aluq khalisatan bandoon ko daydia hai yani agar ksi kay sath haq talfi hoi hai to Allah osay os waqt tak mo'af nahee karain gaiy jab tak woh insaan khod na mo'af karday.... so dartay rehna chaheay aisi batoon say jis say ksi dosray ko takleef pohnchay...

[baykamal]

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Assalaam o alaikum
aaj kal yai kaam hay to bohat laikin toHmat to harr kisi pay lagg rahi hay!
iss maiN aurat kya aur mard kya aur lagaanay waloN maiN b aurat kya aur mard kya, laikin noiyyat mukhtalif hay.
jo jis tarah zor aawar hay wo ussi tarah apnay apni taaqat ko doosray k khilaaf istemaal kar laita hay!
Wassalaam
Raza Baykamal

[ummid]

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sur-e-noor :
para NO : 18

sura NO : 24

ayat NO : 4,5,6,7,8,9,10

TARJUMMA in urdu : ahsanulbayan.

[24:4] Those who accuse married women of adultery, then fail to produce four witnesses, you shall whip them eighty lashes, and do not accept any testimony from them; they are wicked. (jo log paak daman aurton per zina ki tuhmat lagaien phir chaar(4) gawah na pesh karsakein tu inhein assi(80) kode lagao, aur kabhi bhi in logon ki gawahi qoobol na karo, yeh faasiq log hain.)

[24:5] If they repent afterwards and reform, then ALLAH is Forgiver, Merciful.(han!jo log is ke baad tauba aur islaah karlein tu allah(s.w.t) bakhashne wala meharbani karne wala hai.)

[24:6] As for those who accuse their own spouses, without any other witnesses, then the testimony may be accepted if he swears by ALLAH four times that he is telling the truth. ( jo log apni biwiyon per bad kaari ki tuhamat lagaien aur in ka koi gawah bajiz khud in ki zaat ke na ho tu aise logon mein se har ek ka saboot yeh hai keh chaar(4) martabah allah ki qasam kha ker kahe keh woh sachon mein se hai.)

[24:7] The fifth oath shall be to incur ALLAH's condemnation upon him, if he was lying.(aur panchvi(5) martabah kahe keh is per allah (s.w.t) ki laanat ho agar woh jhooton mein se ho.)

[24:8] She shall be considered innocent if she swears by ALLAH four times that he is a liar.(aur is aurat se saza is tarah door ho sakti hai keh woh chaar(4) martabah allah ki qasam kha ker kahe keh yaqinan us ka mard jhooton mein se hai.)

[24:9] The fifth oath shall incur ALLAH's wrath upon her if he was telling the truth.(aur panchvi(5) dafa kahe keh is per allah(s.w.t) ka gazab ho agar us ka khawand sachon mein se ho.)

[24:10] This is ALLAH's grace and mercy towards you. ALLAH is Redeemer, Most Wise.(agar allah(s.w.t) ka fazal-w-karam tum per na hota {tu tum per mushaqat utarti} aur alla htauba qoobol karne wala ba-hikmat hai.)

[ummid]

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jazaak Allah Ummeed :rose

jaza iyaana-w-jaza iyaakum.(jaza hum ko bhi jaza tum ko bhi)

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Assalaam o alaikum
aaj kal yai kaam hay to bohat laikin toHmat to harr kisi pay lagg rahi hay!
iss maiN aurat kya aur mard kya aur lagaanay waloN maiN b aurat kya aur mard kya, laikin noiyyat mukhtalif hay.
jo jis tarah zor aawar hay wo ussi tarah apnay apni taaqat ko doosray k khilaaf istemaal kar laita hay!
Wassalaam
Raza Baykamal

han tuhmat to har kisi pay lag jati hai is thread main khas aurtoun kaybarey main discuss kia gia hai ...woh bhi aisi tuhmat kay jin kay husband apnay pay shak karain kay yeh aulad un ki nahi kisi or ki hai....

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jaza iyaana-w-jaza iyaakum.(jaza hum ko bhi jaza tum ko bhi)

:jazak: :rose


main nay aik aisa hi qissa suna jis main husband nay biwi pay ilzaam laga dia ..halakany woh usay bachpan say janta tha us ki rishtadar hi the....shadi bhi usi say hovi the.us ki biti peda hovi ho to us nay apni mannay say usay inkaar kar dia...us kay paas koi saboot bhi nahi hai apni baat ka ..asal main woh admi kisi or aurat ko pasand karnay laga tha or usay pata tha khandan walye aisay shadi to karnay nahi daian gay is leye biwi pay ilzaam laga kay apna maqsad poora karna chahta tha.....woh aaj bhi aisay azaad phir raha hai or biwi apnay meekay main beti kay sath....us bachi ko loog acha nahi samjatay ab bari hoo gee us pay kia asar parey ga ...us ka kia qasoor hai ?

aik or sawal hai is silsilye ka kay agar donoo hi Allha ki qasam kha kay yeh kahain kay woh sahi hai to pher ?:cc:

[ummid]

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:jazak: :rose

aik or sawal hai is silsilye ka kay agar donoo hi Allha ki qasam kha kay yeh kahain kay woh sahi hai to pher ?:cc:

jitna ilm hume humare ustad ne diya hai us ke mutabiq is soorat mein qazi nikah ko "fisq" kar de ga....
yani na "talaq" na hi "khula"....
aur woh dono phir kabhi nikha nahi kar sakenge....
aur allah tu khoob janta hai ke koan sacchon mein se hai...:rose

[Shaim]

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Walikum Assalam Anchal!

Buhaat accha or ahaam topic laai hain ap jiskee liye buhat sa THX














KHUSH RAHIYYE

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jitna ilm hume humare ustad ne diya hai us ke mutabiq is soorat mein qazi nikah ko "fisq" kar de ga....
yani na "talaq" na hi "khula"....
aur woh dono phir kabhi nikha nahi kar sakenge....
aur allah tu khoob janta hai ke koan sacchon mein se hai...:rose

kisi or say bhi nahi ?:mm:

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Walikum Assalam Anchal!

Buhaat accha or ahaam topic laai hain ap jiskee liye buhat sa THX

pehlay yeh rarer cases main hota tha kabhi kabhabarrrr yeh khabar sunnay main ati the or mostly films main aisa sunnay ko milta tha magar ab yeh aam hota ja raha hai !!!
tum nay jo batain kahi hain sahi batain hain lekan ab agar aisa hoo gia hai tab kia karna chaye un logoo ko ?.asal baat yehhai kay insaan kay dil say shak kesay nikal sakta hai ???

main nay yeh thread isi leye shuru kia kay aisa waqia main nay deekha hai ....aik saal pehlay ka hai or abhi tak is ka hal nahi nikla :donno: ...husband un kay pardess main rehtay hain pak atay jatay rehtay hain har saal .....un kay buhat hi peyaari beeti hovi or baqool us insaan kay woh mere beeti nahi ...us ki biwi us ki cousin the un kay bachpan ki mangater ....us nay bina saboot kay apni biwi pay ilzaam lagaya hai...aik saal hoo gia hai is baat ko or mujhay heeryat hai kisi nay quran ki roushnee main is mamlay ko hal karnay ki kushish nahi ki !!!!!
biwi apnay meekay main beathe hai or miyan apni jaga balkay usay zaida acha mouka mill gia hai doosri shadi karnay ka , yeh baat sab ko pata haai us admi ki pehlay say kai aurtoo say doosti hai ....
us bachi ko loog achi nazar say nahi deekhtay :( abhi to woh aik saal ki hai ...us ka abba usay qabool hi nahi kar raha or koi saboot bhi nahi hai us kay pass.............