Job Karney Wali Larkiyaan

[Masood]

Assalamo allaikum dosto

Aik aur garma garam behas key saath hazir hoon :p

Halaat sey majboor ho ker kuchh larkiyaan gharon sey nikalti hain kaam karney ki gharz sey. Offices ko join karti hain, aur apna aur apney ghar walon ka sahara banti hain. Bohat achhi aur qabil-e-tehseen baat hai :clap:.

Magar aaj kal aik ajeeb si baat dekhney mein aa rahi hai keh kuchh larkiyaan "raton raat" kaafi maal'dar ho jati hai. Unkey barey mein phir moosh'goiyaan hoti hain keh inkey apney bosses key sath "link" hain. Kuchh ki batein samney aati bhi hai aur kuchh apni bad'nami sey chhupney ki khatir apni umer sey kaee badey boss sey chhup chhupa kar nikah tak kar leti hain.

Aap yeh btaein keh aisi larkiyaan jo "raton raat" ameer ban jati hain, ya jo apney bosses sey "link" lgaa leti hain, yeh aisa kyun karti hain? Kya yeh drust hai? Kya job karney wali larkiyon ki aksariyat aisi hoti hai???

[Bheegi-Palkain]

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Masood .....! bhot hi umda baat ki hy ... aur be serious main is main roshni bhi dalu ga ... i mean whi kho ga jo main sochta hu aur samjhta hu ....

Gals ka job karna honestly mujhy pasnd nahi hay ... na hi Mashrti lhaaz sey na hi Islamic point of view sey ... agre aap Aurta lafz aurat ka Tarjuma dekhy Urdu Dictionary n Arabic main to aap ko Mtalb is ka maloom ho ga ***Chupa Kar Rakhany Wali ****

jab tak mery pass Islam ki knwoledge nahi thi tab main khud bhot si Gals ki job main qadam qadem per help karta tha ..... aur bhot si kar bhi rahi hay aur Al Hamdulilh jin ko samjhya wo ruk bhi gai ...

Shayd hi koi Baap ya Bhai ya Shor asa ho jo ya chay ky us ki izzat Ghar sey Bahir jay ... agr aap mahsarti lhaaz sey dekhy to ya baat pasnd nahi ki jaati hay ... agr aap ny is per ziyada kisi ko smajhya to jawab milta hay backword ho ...

agr mashrti lhaaz sey dekha jay to Aurat ko job nahi karni chiya .... Allah Pak nay Aurat zaat ko bhot khubsuart aur achay andaz main Paish kya hay ... per afsoos hota hay k Aurat Parh layny kay baad khud ko ya samjhti hay kay wo JOB karay ....

Job karnay main jab tak burai nahi hay jab tak Khuda na Khasta koi majbori na ho ... Islam nay bhi ijazat di hay ... aur Infact Gals karti hay jo shreef gharo ki hy ... wrna Awara Gals to aap ko her qadem per nazar aajay gi ... jo ky shokiya kar rahi ho ti hay ... aur us waqt mujhy tajub hota hay un kay family per kay kasy gawara karaty hay ..

Al Hamdulilllh ... Allah Pak ka lakh lakh karam hay kay meri sisters job dhoond rahi thi per Al Hamdulllh un ki shadiya ho gi aur wo apnay Ghar ki ho gai .. Allah sey dua thi kay na hi job kary aur us nay sun li ... yha job shokiya nahi thi kuch Fininacially probeelms ki waja sey socha tha ... Per Allah Ka karam hay Hijab aur aik dayray ki had tak ...

Job ky liya Allah Pak nay Mard ko Taqat di hay ... aur meri dua hay kay Allah Pak kabhi bhi kisi Mard ko Bayrozgar na kary Ameen ....,

Laykin jo Gals job karti hay khas kar shokiya ya apny pairo per khara honay ky liya Allah Pak un ko bhi Akal ata kary .... kuo kay Aurat ghar sey bahir niklti hay to wo Parai ho jaati hay ... Bashak Aurat sahi ho per dekhnay walay Sahi nahi ho tay hay ...

Aur mujooda dor main aap jis Aurat ko dekhy gy .. wo sab sey pahlay to Hijab sey duur hoti hay ... phir ban than kar jana .. phir hazro mardo main milna... na dubtay ka hosh na hi jism ka hosh ... aur uppar sey dosro ki nazary ...per mojoda Auart in sab ko igonre karti hay aur khati hay kay ya Backwortd thinking hay ....

aur agr aap notice karo ... to jo Auart job karti hay un say Boys shadi karna bhi pasnd nahi karty hay .... kuo kay wo Aurat ...Bahir rah kar aik to mu phat ho jaati hay ... phir us main masoomiyat khatam ho jaati hay .. aur ya Haqeeat hay .. aur asi Aurto ki shadiya bhi dekhnay main ai hay kay Age niklnay lagti hay .. ya Knawari hi rahti hay ... per Afsoos asi Aurto ky parents ya baat samjhnay ko tayaar nahi ho tay hay ...

Izzat ghar per achi lagti hay ... Aurat aik Back ho ti hay .. jasy hum apni Back nahi dekh patay usi trha Aurat ka bhi pata nahi ho ta hay ...

AGr aap kisi ko samjha dey gy ... to aap per sab sey p[ahly ya baat khi jay gi kay hum ko hamarri Bhan Baytiyo per Aytbaar hay ... jab kay baat Aytbaar ki nahi ho ti hay baat Islam aur Socity ki ho ti hy .. per u knwo hazro peoples achy khasay parhy likhy ho nay kay baojood Jahil hay ...

Albta agr Aurat aik 4 dewari per kaam karay to koi burai nahi hay ... Islam nay hukum diya hay ... aaj aap ko hazro institute aur banks asy nazar ay gy jhaan per Mashalah Gals kaam kar rahi hy .. per agr aap asi jah dekhy to aap ka dil khush ho ga ... per ya sirf makhsoos jaghow per asa hay ..

aur baat rahi ... kay rato raat ameer ... to Masood ... koi aurat Paso sey ameer ho jaati hay aur koi Buari sey ...

Educaton , Knowledge sab aurat ka haq hay .. Aurat ko hasil krna chioya .. Mera Pyara Mazahb ISLAM bhot Adavnce Mazhab hay ... per in hi Aurto aur in jasi Aurto ki Familes nay Middle Class aur ghreeb Tabkay ko tabha kar ky rakh diya hy ....

Allah Pak sey dua hay kay in ky ghar walo ko aur in aurto ko akal ata kary Ameen

aur Allah Pak kisi Bhai ya kisi Shor ya kisi Baap per ya waqt na lay kay us ki izzat ghar sey baahir Pasa kamany main lagy

Ameen

FeamanAllah

[shy]

Re: Job Karney Wali Larkiyaan

is bare me yehi kahun gi ye buri baat he wese bhi larkiyon ko job nahi karni chaye, khas kar wahan jahan mard hazrat bhi mojud hon

['SamRazi']

Re: Job Karney Wali Larkiyaan

This is not right Masood, dont agree with you at all.
Her lerki majboori ki kahtir hi ghar se bahir nikalti hai, aur oun mei se jo apni izzat ki hifazat rakhti hain aur jo nahi ker pati dono hi bekasoor hoti hain. Rato'n raat ameer ban'ney ki baat to keh di aap ne yeh nahi btaya ounhein rato'n raat ameer banata kon hai ??? Boss ke barey mei sirf itna keh ker " bosses have illegal relations with employees " bas baat kahtam ho gayi, kasoor waar lerkian ho gayi ........ Yeh bhi to bataiyeh ke jo bechari majboor lerkian ghar se nikalti hain apni izzat pehlou mei chupayeh oun ki izzat ko rondata kon hai ??? kabhi ounhein behla ker, kabhi majboor ke kai aur kabhi jabran ........

Let me say one thing very clearly, kisi bhi lerki ko dolat apni izzat se pyari nahi hoti, ager wo dolat ke lalacj mei na aayeh to ousey kisi na kisi baat per blackmail ker liya jata hai, her mard janta hai yeh majboori mei nokri ker rahi hai aur her koi ous ka bharpoor faida outhana chahta hai.
For God sake, lerkion ko ilzam dena band kero,sab se pehley khudh ko sahi kero, phir aa ker btana kis lerki ne kis mard ko majboor kiya aise najayez taluqat per.

[rehman]

Re: Job Karney Wali Larkiyaan

Assalamo allaikum dosto

Aik aur garma garam behas key saath hazir hoon :p

Halaat sey majboor ho ker kuchh larkiyaan gharon sey nikalti hain kaam karney ki gharz sey. Offices ko join karti hain, aur apna aur apney ghar walon ka sahara banti hain. Bohat achhi aur qabil-e-tehseen baat hai :clap:.

Magar aaj kal aik ajeeb si baat dekhney mein aa rahi hai keh kuchh larkiyaan "raton raat" kaafi maal'dar ho jati hai. Unkey barey mein phir moosh'goiyaan hoti hain keh inkey apney bosses key sath "link" hain. Kuchh ki batein samney aati bhi hai aur kuchh apni bad'nami sey chhupney ki khatir apni umer sey kaee badey boss sey chhup chhupa kar nikah tak kar leti hain.

Aap yeh btaein keh aisi larkiyaan jo "raton raat" ameer ban jati hain, ya jo apney bosses sey "link" lgaa leti hain, yeh aisa kyun karti hain? Kya yeh drust hai? Kya job karney wali larkiyon ki aksariyat aisi hoti hai???

ab her job karnay wali girl tu boss say link paida nahi karti na:mm: .... me ka experience hai majority girls jo job karti hain vo shareef hoti hain.... :)
ab raton raat tu boys bhi ameer hojatay hain... ab aap kiya kahin gay k inn kay bhi boss say link thay??? :cc:

['SamRazi']

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ab her job karnay wali girl tu boss say link paida nahi karti na:mm: .... me ka experience hai majority girls jo job karti hain vo shareef hoti hain.... :)
ab raton raat tu boys bhi ameer hojatay hain... ab aap kiya kahin gay k inn kay bhi boss say link thay??? :cc:

Masood ke kehne ke mutabiq phir boss female hoti ho gi

[Masood]

Re: Job Karney Wali Larkiyaan

Mai ney is behas ka aaghaz is soch sey nahin kiya hai keh yeh meri soch hai ya main kisi ko ilzaam dey raha hoon. Main ney yeh topic TV per aik program mein dekha tha. Aur socha us per aap logon ki raaey li jaey.

Sab sey pehley main BP ki baton ka jawaab doon ga.

BP is mein qatan koi shak nahin keh Islam ney aurat ko aik hijaab bakhsha hai (woh hijab nahin jo sar per liya jata hai). Aurat ko pardeh mein rakhney ka hukm diya gey hai. Agree.

Lekin yeh kisi jaggah sey sabit nahin hota keh aurat ko kaam nahin karna chahiye. Aurat mard ki hamsafar hai zindagi key har shobey mein. Main yahan per misaal doon ga Iran ki. Jahan per auraton ko full hijaab mein motorcycle chalatey dekha jata hai, aur offices mein kaam kartey dekha jata hai.

Sawaal yeh pedah hota hai keh aakhir woh kaun sey awwamil hotey hain jo yeh nobat laatey hain??? Well take an exemple: Agar koi majboori kisi larki ko office mein ley hi aaey to sab sey pehley office mein kaam karney waley male collegue apni nazar mein woh uryaani laatey hain jis sey woh un larkiyoon ko dekhtey hain, unka jaiza letey hain. Koi larki kabhi khud yeh nahin kehey gi keh ussey aankh bhar key dekha jaey. Aap us aankh ko kyun nahin roktey jo larkiyon ko gustakhana andaaz mein dekhti hain?

Yeh batein hamarey moashrey mein hoti hain, yahan Europe mein office mein bhi to larkiyaan job karti hain, magar kya wajah hai keh log unhein us tarha nahin dekhtey jaisey hamarey mulk mein dekhtey hain? Yahan per larkiyaan behakti hain, wahan per behkaee jati hain. Soch ghalat kis ki hoti hai, yeh talkhi mard ko bardasht karni chahiye.


Saima koi bhi barbadi ho usmein qasoor kisi aik ka nahin hota, balkey taali dono hathoon sey bajti hai. Agar aurat uksaee jati hai to ussey uksaney wala bhi mojood hai. Yeh aik aam si baat hai keh koi baat ho qasoor aurat ko dey diya jata hai - I am totaly agree with you keh aisa hota hai to is mein qasoor siraf aurat ka nahin hota.

[Masood]

Re: Job Karney Wali Larkiyaan

ab her job karnay wali girl tu boss say link paida nahi karti na:mm: .... me ka experience hai majority girls jo job karti hain vo shareef hoti hain.... :)
ab raton raat tu boys bhi ameer hojatay hain... ab aap kiya kahin gay k inn kay bhi boss say link thay??? :cc:

pehli baat to yeh rehman keh ham har larki ki baat nahin kartey aur na hi har larki aisi hoti hai. Ham un cases ki baat kartey hain jo haqeeqat mein ru'numa huwey hain - aur inki ta'daad bohat hai. Sharafat kisi ki jageer nahin hoti, sharafat waldein sey wirsey mein milti hai. Ghar ka mahol bohat depend karta hai.

Jo larkey raton raat ameer hotey hain unkey karobaar bhi aap jantey hain - english mein aik lafz istimaal kartey hain, A sey shuru hota hai - main baqi na bhi likhoon to samajh jana chahiye - yeh us type key log hotey hain.

[Spy009]

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Assalamo allaikum dosto

Aik aur garma garam behas key saath hazir hoon :p

Halaat sey majboor ho ker kuchh larkiyaan gharon sey nikalti hain kaam karney ki gharz sey. Offices ko join karti hain, aur apna aur apney ghar walon ka sahara banti hain. Bohat achhi aur qabil-e-tehseen baat hai :clap:.

Magar aaj kal aik ajeeb si baat dekhney mein aa rahi hai keh kuchh larkiyaan "raton raat" kaafi maal'dar ho jati hai. Unkey barey mein phir moosh'goiyaan hoti hain keh inkey apney bosses key sath "link" hain. Kuchh ki batein samney aati bhi hai aur kuchh apni bad'nami sey chhupney ki khatir apni umer sey kaee badey boss sey chhup chhupa kar nikah tak kar leti hain.

Aap yeh btaein keh aisi larkiyaan jo "raton raat" ameer ban jati hain, ya jo apney bosses sey "link" lgaa leti hain, yeh aisa kyun karti hain? Kya yeh drust hai? Kya job karney wali larkiyon ki aksariyat aisi hoti hai???

Ladkiyon ka job karna buri baat nahin hai...Metropolitan city se main kaafi waqif hoon, jahan taqriban har ghar ki ladkiya ya aurtein job karti hian. Lekin maladar wali baat kuchh hazam nahin huwi, aisa bahut bahut rare chances mein hota hoga maslan 100000 mein ek do cases

['SamRazi']

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Saima koi bhi barbadi ho usmein qasoor kisi aik ka nahin hota, balkey taali dono hathoon sey bajti hai. Agar aurat uksaee jati hai to ussey uksaney wala bhi mojood hai. Yeh aik aam si baat hai keh koi baat ho qasoor aurat ko dey diya jata hai - I am totaly agree with you keh aisa hota hai to is mein qasoor siraf aurat ka nahin hota.

tehikh hai taali ek hath se nahi bachti, magar is ke liyeh pehley ek hath outhta hai, dono sath mei nahi, aur dono hath sath outha ker taali bajaney waley .......

I
ll say some thing which I have seen personally, a man aged 35, married + having three kids havind an affair with a young girl aged 20 working with him in same company, sharamnaak baat yeh ke both are pakistanies. Oun ek affair ke peechey dolat wolat ka koi chakar nahi, magar yaha bhi wahi baat hai jo mei ne kahi, he is her supervisor and wished to have such relation with her aur lerki majboor honey ke natey have no choice, cause her brother is too young to work parent are old ..... wht was her choices
1- Slap him off and kick the job ( one needs lot of courage to do so and continue with it)
2- Agree for wht he says till she find other job or gets rid of him.
In both options wht ever she agrees on who's the one to be blamed.

[Bheegi-Palkain]

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Assalam-o-Alikum WR WB

Masood !

App ki baat sey main aik jagah mutafiq nahi hu aur wo baat ya hay kay jhaan aap nay ya kha kay Islam nay barbar kha hay to asi koi maloomat mery knowldeg main nahi hay .....Braber sey aap ki murad kya hy ... ya murad hay jo aaj kay dor main logo nay kaaym kar li hay kay larkay aur larkiya saath saath kaam karay ... ?

Zahir hy asi baat sirf masharati lhaaz sey hay islam ky lhaaz sey asi bata nahi hay ...

May nay pahlay bhi batya tha ab phir main is baat ko mention karu ga islamic aur Masharati lhaaz sey ..

Kay Aurat Allah Pak ki bhot hi dilkash Creat hy .. yani aap ya kha lijya kay Aurat ko Allah Pak nay bari nazuk sey banya hay .. aur hum dekhty bhi hay kay Aurat bhot nazuk bhi ho ti hay ... isi liya hamary mazahb nay Aurat ko aik darja diya hay .... main is baat kay khalaf hu hi nahi kay Aurat job na kary per is baat ky haq main bhi nahi hu kay Aurat job karay ....

Majboor kon nahi ho ta hay hy ? hum sab majboor hay aur Gals kay pass ya hatyar bhot puarna hay ... is liya majbori per bhass karna koi logic nahi banta hay ... main aap sye koi khuabo khayalo ki baat byaan nahi kar rha hu ... mujhy bhot experince hay ... aur ab to aadt si ho gai hy ....

Hamary haan ki Gals main sab sey burai ya hay kay wo apnay aap ko pata nahi kya samjti hay .... Hmari gals asi hay jab tak ghar ki char dewari main hay to mahfooz rahti hay ... jis ko peoples dkehnayw laya backword khatay hay ... aur jhaan baahir niklti hay to bass us ka bass nahi hota hay kay sab kuch utaar dey .....

Aik baat main nay sab main note ki hay ... kay Job Gals kay koi na koi realtions zaroor ho tay ahy .... shayd hi koi asi larki ho ... shayd ho .. per may nay aaj tak nahi dekhi .. shay dhi asi koi ho jis ka dost na ho ... aur aaj kal to asi gals hay jo kay is baat ko appriciate karti hay kay aik larky main aur larki main dosti hona farz hay . un ko koi sharm nahi ho ti hay ....

aap ko asi gals dekh sakti hay jo kay ghar per naik hy per baahir un ka ya haal hay kay un kay cell phone per larko ky sms aur phone aatya hay ... aur agr aap un ko bura khy gy to buray aap ho jay gy aur backword aur narrow mind aalg ...

aur Afsoos ho ta hay un sab kay parents per jin ko fakhr hay ky un ki baytiya job kar rhai hay ... per ya nahi pata ho ta kay job ky saath kya kar rahi hay ....

Iran ki example di aap nay .... example to main aap ko Pakisatn ki bhi dey skata hu but hum yha majority ki baat kar rahy hy ...

isi liya main is baat sey itafaq nahi karta kay Aurat bila waja , bagyer kisi majbori kay ... job karay ..... Shyad mostly peoples apni baytiyo sur biwiyo aur sisters ko karatay ho gy aur shyad yha sab ko koi aar na dekhy but ... agr aap kisi shrefe larki sey puchay to us ka pahla jumla yahi ho ga kay Job nahi karni chiya ... bilawaja ...

Allah ny mard ko taqat di hay aur in hi aurto ky liya di hay .. ya auraty hamari maa , bhan aur baytiya ban kr aati hay ...

Aur Baad rahi masood kay maard kya karaty hay to hoenstly agr koi mard ksii larki ka dost hay bashk just freind hi kuo na ho dosri kahani bata ki hay to wo sirf is liya ho ta hay kay us ko pata hay kay Larki ghar sey nikli hui hay

dunya ka yahi asool hay

FeaamnAllah

[Bheegi-Palkain]

Re: Job Karney Wali Larkiyaan

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Masood !

App ki baat sey main aik jagah mutafiq nahi hu aur wo baat ya hay kay jhaan aap nay ya kha kay Islam nay barbar kha hay to asi koi maloomat mery knowldeg main nahi hay .....Braber sey aap ki murad kya hy ... ya murad hay jo aaj kay dor main logo nay kaaym kar li hay kay larkay aur larkiya saath saath kaam karay ... ?

Zahir hy asi baat sirf masharati lhaaz sey hay islam ky lhaaz sey asi bata nahi hay ...

May nay pahlay bhi batya tha ab phir main is baat ko mention karu ga islamic aur Masharati lhaaz sey ..

Kay Aurat Allah Pak ki bhot hi dilkash Creat hy .. yani aap ya kha lijya kay Aurat ko Allah Pak nay bari nazuk sey banya hay .. aur hum dekhty bhi hay kay Aurat bhot nazuk bhi ho ti hay ... isi liya hamary mazahb nay Aurat ko aik darja diya hay .... main is baat kay khalaf hu hi nahi kay Aurat job na kary per is baat ky haq main bhi nahi hu kay Aurat job karay ....

Majboor kon nahi ho ta hay hy ? hum sab majboor hay aur Gals kay pass ya hatyar bhot puarna hay ... is liya majbori per bhass karna koi logic nahi banta hay ... main aap sye koi khuabo khayalo ki baat byaan nahi kar rha hu ... mujhy bhot experince hay ... aur ab to aadt si ho gai hy ....

Hamary haan ki Gals main sab sey burai ya hay kay wo apnay aap ko pata nahi kya samjti hay .... Hmari gals asi hay jab tak ghar ki char dewari main hay to mahfooz rahti hay ... jis ko peoples dkehnayw laya backword khatay hay ... aur jhaan baahir niklti hay to bass us ka bass nahi hota hay kay sab kuch utaar dey .....

Aik baat main nay sab main note ki hay ... kay Job Gals kay koi na koi realtions zaroor ho tay ahy .... shayd hi koi asi larki ho ... shayd ho .. per may nay aaj tak nahi dekhi .. shay dhi asi koi ho jis ka dost na ho ... aur aaj kal to asi gals hay jo kay is baat ko appriciate karti hay kay aik larky main aur larki main dosti hona farz hay . un ko koi sharm nahi ho ti hay ....

aap ko asi gals dekh sakti hay jo kay ghar per naik hy per baahir un ka ya haal hay kay un kay cell phone per larko ky sms aur phone aatya hay ... aur agr aap un ko bura khy gy to buray aap ho jay gy aur backword aur narrow mind aalg ...

aur Afsoos ho ta hay un sab kay parents per jin ko fakhr hay ky un ki baytiya job kar rhai hay ... per ya nahi pata ho ta kay job ky saath kya kar rahi hay ....

Iran ki example di aap nay .... example to main aap ko Pakisatn ki bhi dey skata hu but hum yha majority ki baat kar rahy hy ...

isi liya main is baat sey itafaq nahi karta kay Aurat bila waja , bagyer kisi majbori kay ... job karay ..... Shyad mostly peoples apni baytiyo sur biwiyo aur sisters ko karatay ho gy aur shyad yha sab ko koi aar na dekhy but ... agr aap kisi shrefe larki sey puchay to us ka pahla jumla yahi ho ga kay Job nahi karni chiya ... bilawaja ...

Allah ny mard ko taqat di hay aur in hi aurto ky liya di hay .. ya auraty hamari maa , bhan aur baytiya ban kr aati hay ...

Aur Baad rahi masood kay maard kya karaty hay to hoenstly agr koi mard ksii larki ka dost hay bashk just freind hi kuo na ho dosri kahani bata ki hay to wo sirf is liya ho ta hay kay us ko pata hay kay Larki ghar sey nikli hui hay

dunya ka yahi asool hay

FeaamnAllah

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Job Karney Wali Larkiyaan

This is not right Masood, dont agree with you at all.
Her lerki majboori ki kahtir hi ghar se bahir nikalti hai, aur oun mei se jo apni izzat ki hifazat rakhti hain aur jo nahi ker pati dono hi bekasoor hoti hain. Rato'n raat ameer ban'ney ki baat to keh di aap ne yeh nahi btaya ounhein rato'n raat ameer banata kon hai ??? Boss ke barey mei sirf itna keh ker " bosses have illegal relations with employees " bas baat kahtam ho gayi, kasoor waar lerkian ho gayi ........ Yeh bhi to bataiyeh ke jo bechari majboor lerkian ghar se nikalti hain apni izzat pehlou mei chupayeh oun ki izzat ko rondata kon hai ??? kabhi ounhein behla ker, kabhi majboor ke kai aur kabhi jabran ........

Let me say one thing very clearly, kisi bhi lerki ko dolat apni izzat se pyari nahi hoti, ager wo dolat ke lalacj mei na aayeh to ousey kisi na kisi baat per blackmail ker liya jata hai, her mard janta hai yeh majboori mei nokri ker rahi hai aur her koi ous ka bharpoor faida outhana chahta hai.
For God sake, lerkion ko ilzam dena band kero,sab se pehley khudh ko sahi kero, phir aa ker btana kis lerki ne kis mard ko majboor kiya aise najayez taluqat per.

Topic bohat interesting he...mein bhi apni kuch aar'aa paish kerna chahoon ga. Miss saima mein aap ki aik bohat bari ghalat fehmi door kerta chaloon, wo yeh ke mein ne aap ko kai aik baar isi tarah ki statements dete dekha he...aap akser kehti hein ke merd apne aap ko sahi karein to larkiyaan sahi ho jaein gi...mein aik baat jaanta hoon, ke Kharbooza churi pe giray, ya churi kharboozay pe giray, nuksaan doono sooraton mein kharboozay ka hi hota he...so make it clear, carefull larkiyoon ko hi rehna he, sooch ki darustgi aur apni aabru ki hifazat unhein hi kerni he...is man orianted world mein aurat ko dekh bhaal ke chalna he, aurat ka mukabla merd se kerwana bewakoofi he...Go ke hamary mazhab ne Merd aur Aurat ko barabar he hakook diye hein yeh baat to aaj ki larkiyoon ko yaad reh jati he, lekin aurat ko parday mein rehnay ko kaha gaya he yeh baat akser aurat bhool jati he...kudrat ne merd aur aurat ko aik jesa nahi banaya, un ki jismani aur zehni saakht mein farak rakha he...farak to hua na phir doono mein.

Job kerne wali larkiyoon ka apne boss ke saath munslik hona aik aam baat he...ager aik larki apne boss ko please kerti he, to doosri usay dekh ke jelousy feel karay gi...aur isi door mein us se aagay nikalnay ke liye wo illegal mean adopt karnay se nahi chookay gi...and boss is always there to get advantage

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Job Karney Wali Larkiyaan

tehikh hai taali ek hath se nahi bachti, magar is ke liyeh pehley ek hath outhta hai, dono sath mei nahi, aur dono hath sath outha ker taali bajaney waley .......

I
ll say some thing which I have seen personally, a man aged 35, married + having three kids havind an affair with a young girl aged 20 working with him in same company, sharamnaak baat yeh ke both are pakistanies. Oun ek affair ke peechey dolat wolat ka koi chakar nahi, magar yaha bhi wahi baat hai jo mei ne kahi, he is her supervisor and wished to have such relation with her aur lerki majboor honey ke natey have no choice, cause her brother is too young to work parent are old ..... wht was her choices
1- Slap him off and kick the job ( one needs lot of courage to do so and continue with it)
2- Agree for wht he says till she find other job or gets rid of him.
In both options wht ever she agrees on who's the one to be blamed.

Well i don't find it an excuse if her boss wants to take advantage of his seat and she is repelled to act according to her boss wish...rubbish... It entirely depends on a girls commitment whether she wants to indulge herslef in bad relations with her boss or not. These kinda relationships especially in an organization can't be developed forcefully but intentionally. If a girl has no bad intention, she can simply say no to his supervisor regardless of considering the after-effects and please don't present the today's girl as a feeble and helpless creature.

['SamRazi']

Re: Job Karney Wali Larkiyaan

Topic bohat interesting he...mein bhi apni kuch aar'aa paish kerna chahoon ga. Miss saima mein aap ki aik bohat bari ghalat fehmi door kerta chaloon, wo yeh ke mein ne aap ko kai aik baar isi tarah ki statements dete dekha he...aap akser kehti hein ke merd apne aap ko sahi karein to larkiyaan sahi ho jaein gi...mein aik baat jaanta hoon, ke Kharbooza churi pe giray, ya churi kharboozay pe giray, nuksaan doono sooraton mein kharboozay ka hi hota he...so make it clear, carefull larkiyoon ko hi rehna he, sooch ki darustgi aur apni aabru ki hifazat unhein hi kerni he...is man orianted world mein aurat ko dekh bhaal ke chalna he, aurat ka mukabla merd se kerwana bewakoofi he...Go ke hamary mazhab ne Merd aur Aurat ko barabar he hakook diye hein yeh baat to aaj ki larkiyoon ko yaad reh jati he, lekin aurat ko parday mein rehnay ko kaha gaya he yeh baat akser aurat bhool jati he...kudrat ne merd aur aurat ko aik jesa nahi banaya, un ki jismani aur zehni saakht mein farak rakha he...farak to hua na phir doono mein.

Job kerne wali larkiyoon ka apne boss ke saath munslik hona aik aam baat he...ager aik larki apne boss ko please kerti he, to doosri usay dekh ke jelousy feel karay gi...aur isi door mein us se aagay nikalnay ke liye wo illegal mean adopt karnay se nahi chookay gi...and boss is always there to get advantage

Mei aap se behas nahi ekro gi, kiu k it would go long, mei kisi ke barey mei kasiey statments deti hoon i have rights for it u have ur rights as well but ur mentality is totally different from mine ..... so let me clear some things to u gentleman.

First of all let me make it clear to u , we are taliking about women, aurat zaat kisi kharboozey yaan phal sabzi ki baat yahan nahi ho rahi. Sara masla to yahi se shuroo hota hai Mard humesah aurat ko istemal ki chiz samajhta hai, ab chahey as show piece yaan as u said kharbooza. Ager mard mei insaniyat khatam na huwi hoa aur ous ne aurat zaat ko bhi insan samjha ho to yeh sab gandagi janam hi na lai.

Socondly yahan mard aur aurat ki barabari ki baat nahi ho rahi hai. Aurat her haal mei mard se behter hai kabhi kisi chiz ka najayez faida outhaney ki koshish nahi kerti unless and until ousey uksaya na jayeh, aur uksaney waley kon hotey hotey hain, no need to tell.

Finally jealousy ki batein wo log kertey hain jo khudh mei pur aitemad nahi hotey, jin ki apni soch, zaat yaan qabliyat mei koi kami hoti hai, jo qabil hon khudh mukhtar hon wo aisi choti aur fazol baton ki perwa nahi kertey chahyeh mard ho yaan aurat.