MUBAHISA: honor killing

[annayah]

Love, "Honour" and Obey

4 Sep 06

Samaira Nazir was a victim of honour killing. We reveal some shocking attitudes of young British Asians toward so-called "honour" killing.

In July 2006, 25-year old Samaira Nazir's killers were jailed for life. Her 21-year-old brother and teenage cousin murdered her for wanting to marry "an unsuitable boy". Campaigners say so-called "honour" murders in the UK are happening more often and that large numbers of British Asian women across the country are seeking help. Can you help The Asian Network Report examine why "honour"-based violence and abuse is on the increase? The police are trying to understand why these crimes happen - do you?

Presented by: Konnie Huq


Shazia's Story

Shazia Qayyum works for Karma Nirvana, an organisation which supports victims of "honour" abuse. Her childhood friend was killed by her father for bringing "shame" upon him and Shazia herself is the survivor of a forced marriage.

[Wafa]

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annayah sahi me aisa aaj kal ho raha hai...thanx for sharing......:rose
annayah isse behas-o-mubahisa aur halat-e-hazira ke section me post karte to ziada acha tha.......:)

[annayah]

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mein ne behtar jana ki yeh khwateen k section mein sharekaroon ..anywayz aap wahan move kar den

[Shaim]

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Thx Wafa 4 moving this thread:)

ANNAYAH 1stly U R WELCOME @ BEHES-O-MUBAHISA & HALAAT-E-HAZRA (as now u r a part of this section too:) )
:welcome: :welcome: :welcome:

ye problem to buhaat arsey se chalta a raha hai
hum ghalat kehte hain un logoon ko jo ye sab kerte hain.......per ik lamhe k liye soochain k wo khud hi q apni saggi behn/betion ka qatl kerte hain?
just bcoz......un main awareness nahi.......
lack of knowledge ki waja se specially it is common in sindh......

so we must make them aware beside critisism
criticism is 100% correct here.......but the solution is to make them aware

KHUSH RAHYE
WASALAM

[tauruskhan]

Re: MUBAHISA: honor killing

Thx Wafa 4 moving this thread:)

ANNAYAH 1stly U R WELCOME @ BEHES-O-MUBAHISA & HALAAT-E-HAZRA (as now u r a part of this section too:) )
:welcome: :welcome: :welcome:

ye problem to buhaat arsey se chalta a raha hai
hum ghalat kehte hain un logoon ko jo ye sab kerte hain.......per ik lamhe k liye soochain k wo khud hi q apni saggi behn/betion ka qatl kerte hain?
just bcoz......un main awareness nahi.......
lack of knowledge ki waja se specially it is common in sindh......

so we must make them aware beside critisism
criticism is 100% correct here.......but the solution is to make them aware

KHUSH RAHYE
WASALAM

nice topic
meray khial main ab un bachion ko marney ka koi faida naen tha
pehlay deel dee key jee bhar ker azadi hasil karoo
pir jab wo us rah per chal niklain to apni ghariat yaad aa gai

ager ghariat hay to pehlay sey hi kaboo main rakoo

[Shaim]

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nice topic
meray khial main ab un bachion ko marney ka koi faida naen tha
pehlay deel dee key jee bhar ker azadi hasil karoo
pir jab wo us rah per chal niklain to apni ghariat yaad aa gai

ager ghariat hay to pehlay sey hi kaboo main rakoo

mainey suna hai k wo kisey na-mehram boy se baat kerte bhi dekh lain to qatl ker dete hain.........per boy ko kuch nahi kehte?

this is also related topic!
http://www.pegham.com/showthread.php?t=8454

[tauruskhan]

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mainey suna hai k wo kisey na-mehram boy se baat kerte bhi dekh lain to qatl ker dete hain.........per boy ko kuch nahi kehte?

this is also related topic!
http://www.pegham.com/showthread.php?t=8454

naeen dono ko katal kertay haan main ney to khabaroon main yahi perha hay

lakin main ney jahan tak dekha hay , Qatal amoman shadi key baad keya jatey haan
swal yeh hay key pehlay sey qaboo keeon neen kia jata , bachi ko shaoor keeon neen dea jata, and khod bi keeon naeen lia jata,

[Shaim]

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naeen dono ko katal kertay haan main ney to khabaroon main yahi perha hay

lakin main ney jahan tak dekha hay , Qatal amoman shadi key baad keya jatey haan
swal yeh hay key pehlay sey qaboo keeon neen kia jata , bachi ko shaoor keeon neen dea jata, and khod bi keeon naeen lia jata,

apki baat thiik hai
per soochain ho sakta hai k fault na girl ka ho na boy ka........apko pata hai wo less developed regions hain to wahan girls ko pani bhi ghar k bahir se lana hota hai ab ager raste main koi boy un se kisy ka pataa pochna chahy......or us region ka koi person dekh ley to dono ko qatl ker dete hain?

ye to ghalat hai na?
or wasey control to shuro se hi rakhna chahye parents ko girls per bhi n boys per bhi taky wo unk aitimaad mai rahin

[tauruskhan]

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apki baat thiik hai
per soochain ho sakta hai k fault na girl ka ho na boy ka........apko pata hai wo less developed regions hain to wahan girls ko pani bhi ghar k bahir se lana hota hai ab ager raste main koi boy un se kisy ka pataa pochna chahy......or us region ka koi person dekh ley to dono ko qatl ker dete hain?

ye to ghalat hai na?
or wasey control to shuro se hi rakhna chahye parents ko girls per bhi n boys per bhi taky wo unk aitimaad mai rahin

app baat ker rahi haan jahan shaoor naeen hay
jab key main taraki yafata ilaqoon ki baat ker raha hoon
jesay Pakistan key barey shehar , us key ilawa jesay key topic main tha key UK based pakistanion main

app ki baat teek hay villages main jahan aksar esa hota hay , wo to jahalat hay
lakin bashaoor log be pehlay khola chor detay haan bachoon ko pir ghariat yaad aa jati hay

[Shaim]

Re: MUBAHISA: honor killing

app baat ker rahi haan jahan shaoor naeen hay
jab key main taraki yafata ilaqoon ki baat ker raha hoon
jesay Pakistan key barey shehar , us key ilawa jesay key topic main tha key UK based pakistanion main

app ki baat teek hay villages main jahan aksar esa hota hay , wo to jahalat hay
lakin bashaoor log be pehlay khola chor detay haan bachoon ko pir ghariat yaad aa jati hay

sorry main typical karo kari side per chali gae thi
UK main ya Pakistan k big cities main.......to sabki waja beja azaadi hi hai jo k shuro main Parents modernism k naam per dety hain or baad main pashtaaty hain or apne bacchon ki lives bhi tabah kerte hain unko ISLAM se door ker k

[tauruskhan]

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sorry main typical karo kari side per chali gae thi
UK main ya Pakistan k big cities main.......to sabki waja beja azaadi hi hai jo k shuro main Parents modernism k naam per dety hain or baad main pashtaaty hain or apne bacchon ki lives bhi tabah kerte hain unko ISLAM se door ker k

mujeh yaad hay key jab main bachelors ker raha tha zikariya university sey to hamari senior aik larki nay , aik aur senior larkey key sath shadi kee thee and un key ghar waloon ney un ko katal ker dia tha , bara arsa akbarat main silsala ata raha tha

mujeh yahi afsoos hota hay key pehlay waldeen itni deel detay hi keeon hay key bachey is taraf sochtay bi haan baad main Qatal kertay pirtay haan

[Shaim]

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mujeh yaad hay key jab main bachelors ker raha tha zikariya university sey to hamari senior aik larki nay , aik aur senior larkey key sath shadi kee thee and un key ghar waloon ney un ko katal ker dia tha , bara arsa akbarat main silsala ata raha tha

mujeh yahi afsoos hota hay key pehlay waldeen itni deel detay hi keeon hay key bachey is taraf sochtay bi haan baad main Qatal kertay pirtay haan

Hmmmmmm:( :(
ye baat to hai......kitna bura hoa 2ono k sath Parents k sath bhi n childern k sath bhi:(

ALLAH HUM SAB KO HIDAYAT DE AMEEN!

[tauruskhan]

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Hmmmmmm:( :(
ye baat to hai......kitna bura hoa 2ono k sath Parents k sath bhi n childern k sath bhi:(

ALLAH HUM SAB KO HIDAYAT DE AMEEN!

Ameen

[.]

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Uk main bhi aisa kia ja raha hai :mm:
phansi day jaye aisay logoo ko jo aisa jurm kartay hain is key elawa koi saza nahi in ki

[Shaim]

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Uk main bhi aisa kia ja raha hai :mm:
phansi day jaye aisay logoo ko jo aisa jurm kartay hain is key elawa koi saza nahi in ki

iskey ilawa kiya saza ho gi sis??? :bhago: