discussion: Shadi kab kerni chahye ???

[Muhammad Khalil]

Re: discussion: Shadi kab kerni chahye ???

Jab dil kery tab ker laini chayee...

[Shaim]

Re: discussion: Shadi kab kerni chahye ???

Jab dil kery tab ker laini chayee...

ager kise ka 4/5 yrs main shadi kerne ka dil karey to?

[Shaim]

Re: discussion: Shadi kab kerni chahye ???

asalam-0-alikum
here i will not agree with you

pata naeen main sahi bi hoon ya naeen lakin
meri rahey yeh hay key shadi 15 to 16 years of age main ho jani chayeh
and education us key baad bi jari rehni chayeh . is tarah log bohat si boraion sey bach saktey haan jo key late shadi ki waja sey peda hoti haan

ager koi apney beton ko pal sakta hay to wo apni dulhan ko keeon naeen pal sakta

is leya well established wali bat bilkul ghalat hay
and education complete honey wali bi

education complete shadi key bad bi ki ja sakti hay

but meray kehnay sey kia hota hay :)

Walikum Assalam!

Ap sahee hain bhai q k according 2 Islam jab girl/boy baaligh ho jain to shadi ker deni chahiye:)
or ye fact hai k is tarah buhat c burayan khatam ho sakti hain per 14/15 kaafi early hai i think 19/18 mai ho jaani chahiye.

Bhai bat ye hai k ik girl ki jo parwarish hoti hai wo uski apni MAAN jesi ker sakti hain wasa koi bhi nahi ker sakta or ik lerki ki tarbiyat is liye imp hooti hai q k usko shafi k baad new logon mai adjust kerna hoota hai jo k uske liye thora mushkil bhi hoota hai + us se susraal wale xpect bhi buhat kuch kerte hain so is bat ka khiyal rakhna chahiye k uski tarbiyat thiik hoo....or waasey bhi girl ko n boy ko mentally mature hona chahiye warna 15/14 k bacche to bus larayan hi karin ge:p

shadi k baad education ko time dena buhat mushkil hai bhai.......babies ki responsibility a jaati hai + or bhi buhat se kaam hoote hain so perhai to concentration maangti hai jo k shadi k pehle dena masla hoota hai:D to shaadi k bad to......:blush:

19/20 mai ho jani chahiye jab mentally maturity + tarbiyat comp ho chuki hoo or edu.....wo is mai bhi comp nahii hooti

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Re: discussion: Shadi kab kerni chahye ???

Jab dil kery tab ker laini chayee...

khalil dil say nahi deemagh say kaam loo :p

[tauruskhan]

Re: discussion: Shadi kab kerni chahye ???

Walikum Assalam!

Ap sahee hain bhai q k according 2 Islam jab girl/boy baaligh ho jain to shadi ker deni chahiye:)
or ye fact hai k is tarah buhat c burayan khatam ho sakti hain per 14/15 kaafi early hai i think 19/18 mai ho jaani chahiye.

Bhai bat ye hai k ik girl ki jo parwarish hoti hai wo uski apni MAAN jesi ker sakti hain wasa koi bhi nahi ker sakta or ik lerki ki tarbiyat is liye imp hooti hai q k usko shafi k baad new logon mai adjust kerna hoota hai jo k uske liye thora mushkil bhi hoota hai + us se susraal wale xpect bhi buhat kuch kerte hain so is bat ka khiyal rakhna chahiye k uski tarbiyat thiik hoo....or waasey bhi girl ko n boy ko mentally mature hona chahiye warna 15/14 k bacche to bus larayan hi karin ge:p

shadi k baad education ko time dena buhat mushkil hai bhai.......babies ki responsibility a jaati hai + or bhi buhat se kaam hoote hain so perhai to concentration maangti hai jo k shadi k pehle dena masla hoota hai:D to shaadi k bad to......:blush:

19/20 mai ho jani chahiye jab mentally maturity + tarbiyat comp ho chuki hoo or edu.....wo is mai bhi comp nahii hooti

hmm teek kehti ho
wasey 15/14 main bi log mature ho chukey hotey haan , aj kal to 11 /12 sal key bachoon ko wo kuch pata hota hay jo key hmm ko 19/20 sal ki ummer main bi naeen pata tha .

baki larkey specially shadi na honey ki waja sey jitna apna time barbad kertay haan
ager shadi ho jaey to atleast rah rast per aa saktey haan and apna bohat sa keemti time bacha saktey haan

wasey main samjta hoon key larki ki education ki zimadari us key susral ki honi chayeh


baki Allah janey

[Shaim]

Re: discussion: Shadi kab kerni chahye ???

hmm teek kehti ho
wasey 15/14 main bi log mature ho chukey hotey haan , aj kal to 11 /12 sal key bachoon ko wo kuch pata hota hay jo key hmm ko 19/20 sal ki ummer main bi naeen pata tha .

baki larkey specially shadi na honey ki waja sey jitna apna time barbad kertay haan
ager shadi ho jaey to atleast rah rast per aa saktey haan and apna bohat sa keemti time bacha saktey haan

wasey main samjta hoon key larki ki education ki zimadari us key susral ki honi chayeh


baki Allah janey

:blush: :blush: Thankussssssh!
ji maturity tarbiyat ka part bhi hai........jitna ziada Parents apne bachon ko her tarah ka xposure dete hain utna hi wo mature ho jaate hain...
xactly.......!:blush:
me ki chunnni chuuniii cousins ko jitna pata hai hopefully mujhe abhi pata chala hai
ho sakta hai choti umer main shadi k baad bhi boys chooti chooti friends se doosti ker lain:kr:

per yahan eastern countries main SAAS/BAHOO k jhagre chalte rehte hain (Wase ab buhat kam ho gaya hai) to bahoo ki perhae mazeed fasad kharey ker sakti hai:)

[tauruskhan]

Re: discussion: Shadi kab kerni chahye ???

:blush: :blush: Thankussssssh!
ji maturity tarbiyat ka part bhi hai........jitna ziada Parents apne bachon ko her tarah ka xposure dete hain utna hi wo mature ho jaate hain...
xactly.......!:blush:
me ki chunnni chuuniii cousins ko jitna pata hai hopefully mujhe abhi pata chala hai
ho sakta hai choti umer main shadi k baad bhi boys chooti chooti friends se doosti ker lain:kr:

per yahan eastern countries main SAAS/BAHOO k jhagre chalte rehte hain (Wase ab buhat kam ho gaya hai) to bahoo ki perhae mazeed fasad kharey ker sakti hai:)

haan jin key gher star plus bohat shok sey dehka jata hay and us key dramey wahan to shayed fasad ho , lakin baki islamic mahool main esa mumkin naeen

[Shaim]

Re: discussion: Shadi kab kerni chahye ???

haan jin key gher star plus bohat shok sey dehka jata hay and us key dramey wahan to shayed fasad ho , lakin baki islamic mahool main esa mumkin naeen

me nahi dekhti star plus:blush:
Islamic mahool ager perfectly islamic ho too thiik per hum Muslims hain per Islam hum main nahi hai to ise liye ye probs yahan bhi hote hain

[tauruskhan]

Re: discussion: Shadi kab kerni chahye ???

me nahi dekhti star plus:blush:
Islamic mahool ager perfectly islamic ho too thiik per hum Muslims hain per Islam hum main nahi hai to ise liye ye probs yahan bhi hote hain

lakin keeon any reason

[Shaim]

Re: discussion: Shadi kab kerni chahye ???

lakin keeon any reason

q k hum khud hi Islam per amal nahi kerna chahte or hamara imaan kamzoor hai hum western culture se fascinated log hain..........or baaqi details baad main:insha: .......:)