Question? Discussion is>> Dosti

[Aania]

Salam Folkz... to jesa ke topic se zahir hai .. what we have to do here... is .. to share ...
Dosti kia hai?
reason?
why?
the benefits?
the selfishism?
what eva u wanna share ..
any experience?(optional)
So basically What is friendship? ham is main kis had tak involve hotey hein.. kis had tak actually hona chahye.. ?

Topic to Discuss: Dosti

feel free to share your comments.. thoughts regarding DOSTI here

[Shaim]

Re: Question? Discussion is>> Dosti

Walikum Assalam Aania!:salam:




TRUST + SINCERETY = FRIENDSHIP


Friends r the angels who r always there whenever we need them!

Jiskey paas accha dost ho uskey liye always np.com q k wo apko her acchi bat k liye guide karey ga her buri bat se rookey ga or her haal main apka saath de ga.

YES!!!

Coz inside fear of loosing the friend is there!



KHUSH RAHIYYE:phool:
WASALAM!:rose

[aabi2cool]

Re: Question? Discussion is>> Dosti

dal se dost ka dost par dawa
wao se dost ki dost kilie wosat e qalbi
seen se dost ka dost kiliye baesy sukh hona
tey se dost ka dost k dushman kiliy talwar hona
ye se dost ka dost ki dosti par yaqeen

[Aania]

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Walikum Assalam Aania!:salam:




TRUST + SINCERETY = FRIENDSHIP


Friends r the angels who r always there whenever we need them!

Jiskey paas accha dost ho uskey liye always np.com q k wo apko her acchi bat k liye guide karey ga her buri bat se rookey ga or her haal main apka saath de ga.

YES!!!

Coz inside fear of loosing the friend is there!



KHUSH RAHIYYE:phool:
WASALAM!:rose

Nice approach .. Me here.. really kool ideas u have shared... but things are mostly different in sayings n doings... so i would like to ask one thing .. as I have read you here..

friendship should b unlimited widout the boundries!

would you please explain it further... :)

wot I know .. according to the Philosophy of human nature /mind and the Natural Law .. We must have to be in some limits... a simple example is .. we can not keep awakening our eyes.. whether our consent is to be awakin all night or all day .. so the law of nature require our eyes to get resst by getting deep/light sleep. so thats how I feel .. and this is also in islam .. to have>> "Mayanaravi" (aietedaal) balance in everything .. to get peace n protection n long lasting effects.. :)

I would like to know wot u feel about my point .. :cc:
Feel free to say ne-thing .. :wk

[Aania]

Re: Question? Discussion is>> Dosti

dal se dost ka dost par dawa
wao se dost ki dost kilie wosat e qalbi
seen se dost ka dost kiliye baesy sukh hona
tey se dost ka dost k dushman kiliy talwar hona
ye se dost ka dost ki dosti par yaqeen

wo aik baat jo main ne apney pehley reply main kahi .. ke baaten (words) kehney mein barrey ho saktey hain .. lekin aa'maal (act) mukhtalif hotey hein ... ham barri baat to aasani se keh saktey hein .. lekin kia ham apni hi kahi huii choti ya barri baat .... musalsal nibhatey bhi hein ?? :cc:

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Nice approach .. Me here.. really kool ideas u have shared... but things are mostly different in sayings n doings... so i would like to ask one thing .. as I have read you here..

friendship should b unlimited widout the boundries!

would you please explain it further... :)

wot I know .. according to the Philosophy of human nature /mind and the Natural Law .. We must have to be in some limits... a simple example is .. we can not keep awakening our eyes.. whether our consent is to be awakin all night or all day .. so the law of nature require our eyes to get resst by getting deep/light sleep. so thats how I feel .. and this is also in islam .. to have>> "Mayanaravi" (aietedaal) balance in everything .. to get peace n protection n long lasting effects.. :)

I would like to know wot u feel about my point .. :cc:
Feel free to say ne-thing .. :wk

Well...mein me here ki baat se agree karon ga ke friendship mein koi boundries nahi hotein, i don't know ke kitaabein kia kehti hein, loog kia kehtay hein. Aania tum ne kaha ke bari baatein kerna ziada aasan he lekin kerna ziada mushkil he, kisi had tak aisa hi he, lekin aisa bhi nahi ke aisa hi he. Aik insaan ki zindagi tagiyurat se guzarti he, us ki umer badalti he, us ki sooch badalti he, us ki priorities badalti hein, us ka mazaj badalta he, waqt ke takazay badaltay hein, lekin aik acha insaan honay ke naatay us ke doost nahi badaltay. Doosti ka rishta bohat pakka bhi he aur bohat kucha bhi...kisi ne isay youn beyaan kia he, ke doosti aik heeray (diamond) ki tarah hoti he aur rishtay daari soonay (gold) ki tarah, doosti rishtay-daari se bhi ziada mazboot aur keemti hoti he, soona jaldi toot jata he, jaldi pigal jata he, lekin pigal ke phir usi saanchay mein dhal jata he, lekin doosti rishtay-daari se bhi bohat mazboot hoti he, yeh to toot'ti nahi, lekin ager is mein koi daraar aa jaye to is ka phir se jurna mushkil ho jata he...lehaza daraar nahi aani chahiye.

[Shaim]

Re: Question? Discussion is>> Dosti

Nice approach .. Me here.. really kool ideas u have shared... but things are mostly different in sayings n doings... so i would like to ask one thing .. as I have read you here..

friendship should b unlimited widout the boundries!

would you please explain it further... :)

wot I know .. according to the Philosophy of human nature /mind and the Natural Law .. We must have to be in some limits... a simple example is .. we can not keep awakening our eyes.. whether our consent is to be awakin all night or all day .. so the law of nature require our eyes to get resst by getting deep/light sleep. so thats how I feel .. and this is also in islam .. to have>> "Mayanaravi" (aietedaal) balance in everything .. to get peace n protection n long lasting effects.. :)

I would like to know wot u feel about my point .. :cc:
Feel free to say ne-thing .. :wk

Friendship kia hai?
Jab ap kise k sath sincere hoote hain
Us se her bat share kerte hain

[ummid]

Re: Question? Discussion is>> Dosti

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Question? Discussion is>> Dosti

true

[Aania]

Re: Question? Discussion is>> Dosti

Friendship kia hai?
Jab ap kise k sath sincere hoote hain
Us se her bat share kerte hain

ahaann.. does Islam allow to make friendship in boys to girls n vice versa? :mm:
does Friendship relation came out from Islam?
many things.. can make biggi conflicts girly.. :)
n I dont think if u have a male friend n can have all kinda unlimited relation with you or any girl? would he be allowed to ?? what u say abt it ??

my concern to discuss this topic was ..
what is Friendship
why it is called n so on ..
well getting nice ideas by all of u ..
:)

[Aania]

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would you please explain ur Sentence in detail .. with the example from South-Asian society especially.. :) :mm: detail accounts plz .. :wk

[ummid]

Re: Question? Discussion is>> Dosti

would you please explain ur Sentence in detail .. with the example from South-Asian society especially.. :) :mm: detail accounts plz .. :wk

explaination.........

[Aania]

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explaination.........

:mm::tasali:

[Yaaram]

Re: Question? Discussion is>> Dosti

Dosti aik aisa rishta hay jo sab pakeeza rishtoN ki bunyad hay :) lekan afsos ke aaj is ki qadar nai :) mera to aaj tak ka tajurba yahi kehta hay ke aaj kal log ziada lalichi hote hain :) aap se kisi khas cheez ya lalich ki bunyad per aap se jure hote hia :) waqt aane per jab un ka bhed khulta hay to bari takleef hoti hay :) Kehte hian na ke Jab Dost hOn to dushmanoN ki zaroor nai rehti :)
aur doosri baat to phir wahi hay ke dosti jesa rishta koi nai agar koi is ko nibhaye to jesa nibhane ka haq hota hay :) Dosti :) har rishte se ho sakti hay :) aur baaz oqat dosti Muhabbbat main bhi badal jati hay :) balke dosti bhi us se hi hoti hay jis se muhabbat ho jaye :)

[aabi2cool]

Re: Question? Discussion is>> Dosti

wo aik baat jo main ne apney pehley reply main kahi .. ke baaten (words) kehney mein barrey ho saktey hain .. lekin aa'maal (act) mukhtalif hotey hein ... ham barri baat to aasani se keh saktey hein .. lekin kia ham apni hi kahi huii choti ya barri baat .... musalsal nibhatey bhi hein ?? :cc:

aslamo alykum , aap ny dosti k oper ray mangi thi main ny mukhtasar bata di ab aap ny jo sawalaat kiye hain main un ka maqsad naheen samjh saka?