Bacho Kie Perwarish

[Z.]

Re: Bacho Kie Perwarish

Really masla buhat big hai

Barish agar ye sab haqeeqat mey honey lagey to phir kya hi kehna :)

aeysa aksar nahi hota na

aaj kal aksar parents (khas ker mothers key wo ziada waqt bachey key saath hoti hain) TV per cartoon key agey bitha deyti hein ya phir isi tarhan ki doosri activities mey laga deyti hein --- wo bhool jati hein key ye time jo wo apney bachey key sath guzarein gi wo us ki personality build up kerney mey kitna madad gar sabit ho ga

[Mr. Sialkoty]

Re: Bacho Kie Perwarish

mein kai raaye doon...berg-e-gul aur Mehere doonon ki aar'aa apni jaga bohat theek hein...going good

mein bus aik chooti si baat karon ga....buchoon se jhoob kabi na boolein...aap ke jhoot se buchay bhi jhoot boolna seekhtay hein...aap buchon ke liye role model hein...un ke saamnay achay kaam keejiye

[Shaim]

Re: Bacho Kie Perwarish

Barish agar ye sab haqeeqat mey honey lagey to phir kya hi kehna :)

aeysa aksar nahi hota na

aaj kal aksar parents (khas ker mothers key wo ziada waqt bachey key saath hoti hain) TV per cartoon key agey bitha deyti hein ya phir isi tarhan ki doosri activities mey laga deyti hein --- wo bhool jati hein key ye time jo wo apney bachey key sath guzarein gi wo us ki personality build up kerney mey kitna madad gar sabit ho ga

is tarah to bache apne raste jain ge or Parents apne raste.......jesa modern societies main hoota hai or wahan unkey bacche smoking kerte hain to parents dont care.....its a fashion near them
per ye bat sahee hai k majority Moms ab apne bachon ko bilkul wasa tima nahi detiin jesa dena chahiye halan k aj kal ki Moms ziada educated hain per phir bhi wasee tarbiyat nahi de paatin jesi purani Moms deti thiin.....:)
per aisa nahi kerna chahiye....bacche 2/3 hoon per un per mehnat ziada honi chahiye sometimes ziada babies ki waja se bachon ko tawajju nahi milti

[Shaim]

Re: Bacho Kie Perwarish

mein kai raaye doon...berg-e-gul aur Mehere doonon ki aar'aa apni jaga bohat theek hein...going good

mein bus aik chooti si baat karon ga....buchoon se jhoob kabi na boolein...aap ke jhoot se buchay bhi jhoot boolna seekhtay hein...aap buchon ke liye role model hein...un ke saamnay achay kaam keejiye

Jhoot ka factor waqai ghalt hai.....ye kise insaan main nahi hoona chahiye jo baccha jhoot bolta hai wo parents se bhi booley ga or is tarah parents us per trust nahi karin ge
ye jo bachpan main bachon ko daraya jata hai na k soo jao warna bhoot a jae ga:blush: ....is tarah bache jhoot seekhte hain or is tarah wo bahaadur bhi nahi ban sakte......

[zeeshan]

Re: Bacho Kie Perwarish

Jhoot ka factor waqai ghalt hai.....ye kise insaan main nahi hoona chahiye jo baccha jhoot bolta hai wo parents se bhi booley ga or is tarah parents us per trust nahi karin ge
ye jo bachpan main bachon ko daraya jata hai na k soo jao warna bhoot a jae ga:blush: ....is tarah bache jhoot seekhte hain or is tarah wo bahaadur bhi nahi ban sakte......

aap ne blkl sehe kaha :thmbup: hame ese bato se waqi prehaiz kerna chiye :)

[ummid]

Re: Bacho Kie Perwarish

Aap ki is post mein aap ne bacchon ka abuse lang. use karna apne badon ke saath yeh likha hai...aisa kaise ho sakta???hum ne tu yeh bhi kabhi nahi daikha ke koi apne badon se unchi awaz mein baat ker raha ho...aap abuse lang. ki baat kar rahe hain...strange....ager aisa kahein hota hai tu waqai qabil-e-afsoos baat hai yeh....

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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Jhoot ka factor waqai ghalt hai.....ye kise insaan main nahi hoona chahiye jo baccha jhoot bolta hai wo parents se bhi booley ga or is tarah parents us per trust nahi karin ge
ye jo bachpan main bachon ko daraya jata hai na k soo jao warna bhoot a jae ga:blush: ....is tarah bache jhoot seekhte hain or is tarah wo bahaadur bhi nahi ban sakte......

sahi kaha...aur haan...kuch loogon buchon ko confidence dene ke liye buchoon ko be-lagaam choor dete hein un per check nahi rakhtay yeh bhi bohat ghalat he...buchon ko achai aur barai mein tameez kerwana maan baap ka haq he...waise yeh baat common si he...lekin kuch loogon isay samajtay nahi hein...mein jub bhi kisi gali mohalay mein buchoon ko badhaal, awara gardi kerta hua dekhta hoon to mera dil chahta he ke aisay buchoon ke maan baap ko jail mein daal doon. jo waldein buchoon ki terbiyat nahi ker saktay unhein aulaad paida kerne ka bhi koi haq nahi

[RulzZ]

Re: Bacho Kie Perwarish

:rose

[RulzZ]

Re: Bacho Kie Perwarish

aj kal ki Moms ziada educated hain per phir bhi wasee tarbiyat nahi de paatin jesi purani Moms deti thiin.....:)

educated maa aur non-educated maa kia hota hai.... ??
jis tarhaan Rab-e-Kareem bachay ki khorak ka intezam karta hai usi tarhaan tarbiyat ka hunar bhi maan main rakha hai.....!! baat us hunar ko pehchan'nay ki hai, EDUCATION aik MAAN par koi asar nahee dalti aur na MAAN kabhi JAHIL hoti hai.....

[zeeshan]

Re: Bacho Kie Perwarish

:rose

aap ne bht hi ache trh se wazaht kie ha :) thankx dear bro. :rose

[Mr. Sialkoty]

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:rose

Scorpio...aap ki baat se kisi had tak mein itfaak kerta hon. Sub se pehlay hamein buchay ki personality develop kerne wali chemistry seekhni ho gi. Akser waldein buchay ko school baij ker apne aap ko justify ker dete hein...but there is something more to it. Aik buchay ki personality multi-dimentional hoti he...jis mein mazhabi pehlu, dunyavi pehlu, moaasharti pehlu, nafseyaati pehlu aur shoori pehlu wagaira shamil hein...hum buchay ki terbiyat kerte waqt koi bhi pehlu nazar andaaz nahi kerna chahiye.

Aur jahan tak rahi baat shaoor aanay ke baad insaan ke self decision ki, to us baray mein yeh kahoon ga ke jis buchay ki shaoori tarbiyat achi tarah ki gai ho...usay achai aur burai mein achi taraf faraq ker ke dikhaya gaya ho to aisay buchay ziada ter aik acha ferd bun ker moaashray mein fa'aal kerdaar hi ada kerte hein na ke moaashray ki tehreeb kariyoon ka bais buntay hein...ager is ke ult hota bhi ho ga to wo chand aik percent loog hi hoon ge.